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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

I think it would be very fun to raise a child. I have started my period so I can get pregnant. Would it really affect my life if I get pregnant at the age of 16?

Thanks,

Vicki

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Dear Vicki,

Since you asked, I think it would be the biggest mistake you will ever make to become pregnant when you have not had the opportunity to finish your own childhood, let alone become an adult. You have a great deal to enjoy as a young person before you become a parent. Children deserve two parents who are adults with goals, accomplishments, and commitments.

Parents need to understand the responsibilities and joys that go with raising a child. I don't believe that you are truly ready for this change of lifestyle.

Good luck,

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shaeshae031203
shaeshae031203
Posted July 29, 2014
My mom had me at 18 and my father did the wrong thing broke up with her and told her that I wasn't his kid my mom was a single mom for a while but thank God my mom found my step dad and had a daughter him self and they had 4 kids together
Posted July 24, 2014
My mother had me at 17... She almost didn't graduate, and was certainly not ready to be a great mommy... My dad did "the right thing" and married her.. But it was never a happy marriage, and at 16, I find myself at parent swaps and arguments concerning money for my braces, cheerleading, insurance... You name it. Please be smart ladies, because it is a tough life being the outcome of wedlock. Honestly, the only 100% way to prevent teen pregnancy is abstinence, so make your decision to stay pure and wait until marriage, you won't regret it!
SingYourHeartOut(:
SingYourHeartOut(:
Posted June 06, 2012
ok soo i actually have wanted to get pregnant but not rite now due tto evrrything. ima wait till the day i turn 18 and get pregnant. i dnt want to miss out on my childs life. say she be 13 i would only be 31. so it would ne better. and 18 i wont get in trouble bt mt parents! drry thts my opinion
Ballerinastar101
Ballerinastar101
Posted March 18, 2013
i am almost thirteen in a few weeks. i hope to someday be validictorium in highschoolo class of 2018. i want to go to julliard. when i get out of julliard i want to start a family. open a dance studio. i think its great to have goals and try to achieve your goals before having a family. HOWEVER its all your choive when you want to have a kid. so im totally with young mothers
SuperCuteKitty
SuperCuteKitty
Posted June 16, 2014
I don't have any kids right now, but raising them is a huge responsibility. Specially when they are just babies.. Later on, they have to go to school.. Sometimes they get bullied and stuff like that, so you'll have to help them out. :D
Loudsilence
Loudsilence
Posted June 30, 2014
Any young girl isn't physically/emotionally ready to become a young Mum. It's best to become a Mum when you are an adult. While you're young its a good to stay in school, graduate, go to college and then get a job. If you're a teen girl who is a young Mum, you cant really have a job that pays well-enough for you and your child. You need enough to pay for health, shelter, food, clothing etc. So live happy while you're young. You still got awhile for you to become a mother. (:
MusicRocker
MusicRocker
Posted July 31, 2011
Also I'm freaked out about how guys touch girls boobs when they're making out.
ImmaWIItard01
ImmaWIItard01
Posted June 06, 2012
Dang, that girl is a re-re.
Jakyra
Jakyra
Posted April 02, 2012
okay so fist off WHY IN THE SAINT HECK WOULD YOU WAN TO GET PREGNANT SO YOUNG. Okay don't waste it my mother had my oldest brother at 14 and said "It changed my life forever I couldn't be a teen again" I don't want that and ten pregnancy is in this family and i don't plan for it i hope you don't.... Honest opinion
mickeykk
mickeykk
Posted March 13, 2012
No offence to the girl who asked this but WHY DO U WANT TO BE PREGNANT? like honestly is there nothing to look forward to in your childhood that you need to become an adult? I just don't get it. Also you should wait to have sex until you married, just my opinion.
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