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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

Why are girls mean to each other? They talk behind your back, and say other things to your face.

 

Jessica

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Dear Jessica,

I wish I knew a simple answer to this. What I do know is girls are showing their own insecurity when treating one another in mean and inconsiderate ways. There are so many so many changes going on when you are a teen. Often this can cause a lack of confidence to develop.

 

Just because girls are mean to you and others doesn’t mean you need to act this way. Treating others with the same respect you want to be treated is the right thing to do.

 

Hope this helps,

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AFRICANpink
AFRICANpink
Posted June 16, 2014
i think some girle are mean because they are jealous.When i was in the 8th and 9th grade,there was this girl that was mean to me cuz i was friendly with a lot of guys in school including the ones she dumped and the ones she had a crush on so she started calling me a BOYFRIEND/CRUSH STEALER and started telling girls to watch out or else i might steal their guy and because of that i lost almost all my friends.I never wanted to steal a girls crush,i was just being friendly,it was later that i found out she was jealous of me
MallyMiller
MallyMiller
Posted April 06, 2014
My friend said that I pushed her and got mad at her for nothing. She and some other girls replied to me with "We don't hate you we just don't like you." Which made me feel really bad so I ran to the bathroom and cried. My Best Friend Thayli came and confort me which made me feel a littl relieved. The whole school day everyone was against me I got back to my class and got a note saying 'Got mad @ a fellow student pushing her down" I told some of the other girls while crying and they all said they never saw me push anyone, nor that I would ever do that. Alot of the boys during P.E said " Run faster or else I'll push you like you did to Danai" HELP!
ashiegirl0814
ashiegirl0814
Posted July 06, 2012
I wonder the same thing. This girl was so mean to me and spreading rumors and took my ONLY friends away (later I found out the talked about me too) I was so upset. I wanted to move to another school.
onedirection<3Harry<3
onedirection<3Harry<3
Posted August 20, 2012
i wondered why some girls were mean also but then i realized that maybe one reason is that something bad happened in their life and they are taking it out on somebody else hope this helped if anybody needed it
sweetsani16
sweetsani16
Posted June 21, 2012
some girls do these to me alot
maddymac
maddymac
Posted November 25, 2012
You shouldn't worry about this they are just insecure and they are probably jelouse of you don't let them get in your head and if something starts to bother you then try to think of something nice about yourself and if their is a rumor that keeps getting spread around or something like that you can always tell someone but I wouldn't sweat the small stuff!
Smile1720158
Smile1720158
Posted May 05, 2012
this girl named Hallie hates me and i don't know y? her BF is my best friend and i think she is intimadated cause he and i play hockey and track 2gether. i wish she liked me so we could be friends.
Moonclaw
Moonclaw
Posted April 07, 2012
There's this girl at my school, and she manipulates nearly all the girls in my class. The other half often references her as 'the queen bee'. And most of the little 1st graders in my school are all (I'm not naming names)! I think she's a brat, but I don't want to be rude. My friend and I are the loner girls of the class but we aren't emo or anything. One girl in her clique, I feel bad for her; she isn't that fit like the other girls and is trying to be like them. another one is in gymnastics and her mom works at some sorta nightclub and her dads girlfriend isn't much different. And then the last one, she doesn't wanna be on the wierd side nor the prissy bratty side. it's like, the lead girl brings something up and the others think it's the funniest comment ever! I wanna do something but I don't wanna end up being the hated one or outsider.
Moo(:
Moo(:
Posted May 23, 2012
I had this bad friend who used me and made me give her homework answers. I really tried to not give her the answers, but when I didn't, she got all mad. I'm not letting her use my answers and taking the work I put into them. She also spread secrets. And rumors that weren't even true! Like one time she told the school nerd that I liked him and I don't! And he believed it!Of course I was mad at her, and she said "Well I was just joking. I mean you can't take a freaking joke for once?" It's not right.
Moo(:
Moo(:
Posted May 23, 2012
@imboycrazzy12, Because when the girl is picking on the boy she likes, she thinks that no one will ever know she likes him. See, most girls don't like sharing who she likes. So that will make other people think that she doesn't like him.
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