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Added April 26, 2013

When Will I Get A Boyfriend?

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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

I have not had a boyfriend. Never! How do I know when it's my time to have a boyfriend?

Latrice

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Dear Latrice,

Most girls don’t have a boyfriend by the time they are 14. In fact, most guys aren't ready to have girlfriends at this age!

The right boy will come along. You need to be patient and realize forcing the issue doesn't help. Participate in activities you enjoy. People are more attracted to someone involved in interesting things and one who looks like she's having fun. You can try expanding the circle of people you know by joining new activities. Usually a boyfriend will come along when you least expect it or aren't even busy looking for one!

Good luck,

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JJ Foey
JJ Foey
Posted December 30, 2012
If you are really desperate to get a boyfriend, then remember that boys are generally a maturity level of two or more years than they actually are. So if you like a guy who is 13 then he could be as mature (More or less) as an 11 year old. And also, parents see dating as a sign of growing up, and you should too! Enjoy life while you're young, because get too serious with a boy (You know what I mean. Yuk!) then that could all be taken away! Savor your singularity until you are allowed to date and you'll be fine!
coolchica
coolchica
Posted December 15, 2012
is it bad to kiss someone who isn't your boyfriend? i'm not currently in a relationship, but it doesn't mean i don't want to kiss anybody!
Dancer.Chick.5678
Dancer.Chick.5678
Posted August 28, 2012
Don't worry about love guys, that's meant for a whole different time of our life not 13. Just have fun! But don't take it too far :) Live your life before you say your in true love! We don't even know true love! We're teenagers!
Smile1720158
Smile1720158
Posted October 29, 2012
what do i do if my best friend, who may i mention saved me when i had my unexpected period at school, have a crush on the same guy?!? do i back off? or should we both get over him or just me? PLEASE RESPOND ASAP!
GoldenzGirl
GoldenzGirl
Posted November 23, 2012
@Smile1720158 Why don't you talk to each other? Instead of going behind each others backs and flirting with the same guy. Wouldn't that make more sense? Work something out. After all, aren't crushes and true love different? I mean, come on! I'm 14 and still haven't had my first boyfriend yet!
SexiLexiRox
SexiLexiRox
Posted August 12, 2012
I hate the way kids aged 5 - 10 date and tongue kiss it's just so gross!
meteen
meteen
Posted July 10, 2012
i know what you mean
Celinev21
Celinev21
Posted August 01, 2012
Hey bienggirl experts so im too afraid to grow up!who am i kidding i play softball why cant that make me happy!and im full of depression because my grandma past away at age 50 in january we still dont now why!:(
droiderr
droiderr
Posted July 27, 2012
well, im 13 and i have a boyfriend (lets call him babe.)We've been dating for about...2 months and before that we were dating for 5 months and he broke up with me cause he thought it was too slow. but he decided he still liked me and hated himself for letting me go. well, date if your only ready. I dated a boy when i was in 3rd to 4th grade on and off and i thought i was in love with him. but it was only like a little crush thing. But now, with Babe, I discovered what love is like. true love. The kind where its mutual and you can eel each others love and it makes you feel happy and loved deep down. We both realized how precious each other is to each other. <3 but to the girls who dont have "him" yet, You'll get him! be yourself! And to the girls who havent dated because of personal choice, I applaude you for doing a great job(: <3
messa5
messa5
Posted July 09, 2012
So I had a boyfriend (the soul mate kind) and we were dating for 2+ years on and off. He still likes me and I kinda like him. Yesterday I let him read.my diary (for some reason unknown) and when he got to like the 2nd page he flipped out because i HAD this crush on a boy, but now I do not. He got mad but when we said prayer at the table(we were on a feild trip with our church) he held on to my hand evan after we finished saying pray. When.I looked at him he smiled and.let go of my hand. Does he still like me? Please respond ASAP
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