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Added August 01, 2013

What Type Of Guy Is Right For Me?

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Okay, so you have a picture of your favorite rock star above your desk. And another one inside your locker at school. Not to mention the one on your binder. In fact, just about anywhere you look, he's peering out at you.

 

And then there's that guy at school you have a crush onyou know, THAT guythe one you look at for too long, and hope he doesn't notice.

 

Chances are that your favorite musician and your crush are very, very different people. And when you think about your last crush, and the one before that, you might start to wonder, "What type of guy is right for me?"

 

What type of guy is right for me checklist

Well, think about it. You can even make a list of the guys you've had crushes on (just make sure to keep it somewhere private) and write down qualities you like or liked in each of the guys.

 

Now, this list isn't meant to be a checklist you hold up to every guy you meet from this day on, but if you're actually thinking about what type of guy is right for me, you might want to make sure they have the most important qualities. While you're at it, write down the qualities you like in a friend, too, because sometimes (hopefully!) a boyfriend or love interest is your best friend as well.

 

Type of guy is right for meUse your information

Maybe the thing you like most in a friend and in a crush is that he or she is considerate. Well, then maybe you'll think twice before dating the class jerkno matter how cute he is. Maybe the most important thing to you is a sense of humor. Recognizing this might help you single out someone you'd never really thought about before. What about that really funny guy in your English class? You might want to think about getting to know him better, whether as a crush OR as a friend.

 

Being honest with yourself about what type of guy is right for me and thinking about what qualities are important to you in a crush or in a friend is an important step on the road to self-discovery and adulthood. It will make you think twice about people you hang around with, and might inspire you to make new friends!

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Coplover0927
Coplover0927
Posted February 15, 2014
I have the perfect guy in mind.... i have liked him since i was 10 and i keep hoping that he'll eventually feel the same way about me like today he has been so sweet and practically texted me all day ?? i just hope he knows!!!
Awesome_dork
Awesome_dork
Posted December 01, 2013
I haven't had a crush on a boy (Most 6th grader boys are so immature), but in my head I have the prefect one. I made him up, and now I want to actually see someone who looks like him! I hope this doesn't mess up any of my future relationships.
Kelsi103001
Kelsi103001
Posted October 18, 2013
Silv132, every girl is pretty enough to get the perfect guy. It does not matter how many zits or pimples you have. Most guys look at how you look at on the inside, not the outside.
Awesome_dork
Awesome_dork
Posted December 01, 2013
I haven't had a crush on a boy (Most 6th grader boys are so immature), but in my head I have the prefect one. I made him up, and now I want to actually see someone who looks like him! I hope this doesn't mess up any of my future relationships.
Awesome_dork
Awesome_dork
Posted December 01, 2013
I haven't had a crush on a boy (Most 6th grader boys are so immature), but in my head I have the prefect one. I made him up, and now I want to actually see someone who looks like him! I hope this doesn't mess up any of my future relationships.
Purple heart
Purple heart
Posted October 14, 2013
@silv132 when the right guy comes around he will not care how you look! He will look beyond that into your heart and realize the beauty is on the inside, not on acne!!! :)
LRW_143
LRW_143
Posted August 02, 2013
boys don't like me
Mayarosewieder
Mayarosewieder
Posted August 22, 2013
I like this guy is very cute and he knows that I like him. Right know we are in the friend zone but I want him to be my boyfriend I just don't know if he would laugh at me and say mean things or just be a jerk and use me.
silv132
silv132
Posted September 03, 2013
i have 2 many zits and pimples and i look really ugly so i dont think this advice will work for me but i can try it
Lulu2002
Lulu2002
Posted August 22, 2013
LRW_143, I bet u have millions of people who like u just the way u are!! They are just to embarresed to tell u they like u because they think u r too cool for them!!! ;) Don't worry. You are perfect! GO GIRL POWER!!!
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