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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

Do you have any good ideas for a conversation with your boyfriend? We've been going out for two months, but I'm still shy, and when we talk on the phone there is a lot of silence! Please help. Thank you.

Georgia

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Dear Georgia,

When you start a new relationship conversation can be difficult. Ask him about things in his life you know are important to him family, sports, etc. Get him to share his likes and dislikes. When he talks, pay attention to what he is saying. When he mentions something he is doing, you can ask him about it later. Share with him what is happening in your life. Tell him about your daily activities, hobbies, sports, etc.

Try not to spend too much time together and too much time on the phone. This way you won t have those pauses in your conversation. The more things you do as individuals, the more you will have to discuss when you do talk or get together. Also, when you get together, try to choose activities that will get you talking try a new activity together. Rather than going to a movie all the time, you could go bowling or go to a ballgame. If conversation continues to be a struggle, you may need to consider whether the two of you have enough in common to have a relationship.

Good luck,

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theturtleperson
theturtleperson
Posted March 29, 2014
My boyfriend wants to ,make out with me. I'm only twelve. I said I am not ready. Did I do the right thing?
Brycelovr02
Brycelovr02
Posted February 13, 2014
I have a bf named Bryce. Read my username lol!!! Btw don't ever let a boy ruin ur relationship with ur BFF
AFRICANpink
AFRICANpink
Posted July 16, 2013
Hi RandomMe, am here to help you.If your really in love with someone you won't care about the age.Hope this answered your question
RandomMe
RandomMe
Posted January 04, 2013
Oh,Hi :) It's me again. Hmm, I have a boyfriend and he's like the sweetest thing ever :') We both get eachother and we're like the PERFECT couple except for the fact that he's one year younger to me.. He's 12 .. yeah.. That kinda sucks.. But most of the people think that its too early to date? But this is just puupy love .. I just wanted to know.. Do you think the age would affect our relationship? Help me out? Thanks xx -RandomMe
chocolatelover1994
chocolatelover1994
Posted August 09, 2013
this is the exact same thing with nme and my boyfriend
Stef123
Stef123
Posted April 01, 2013
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE MY BOYFRIEND BRANDON!!!! <3 :)
Mz.Pink
Mz.Pink
Posted February 04, 2012
When your on the phone with your BF or a guy you like, you should find out more about him and things he likes to do. You should find out what kind of grades do he make in school, what is his favorite food, favorite color, how many siblings does he have. So there is alot of things that you can talk about.
@Bananaz
@Bananaz
Posted January 05, 2012
Nana_lovee1024 I do tha same EXACT thing!! But its lyk after I started goin wit this boi there is less to tlk abt....we kno eachother better than anybody else so therearent any questions to ask!!!!!! Just blank silence until I mak up an excuse to get off the phone
BieberBabe2012
BieberBabe2012
Posted October 09, 2012
I have the exact same problem!! me and my bf hve been dating for 3 months and on the phone we'll talk FOREVER then at school its REAAALLY awkward... im afriad if i dont do somethin than he might break up with me...wht should i do??
babypinck93
babypinck93
Posted August 24, 2012
tick ones both of yall start knowing each other better you two will know what to talk about
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