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Added August 01, 2013

Teenage Crushes

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If you have a crush on someone, the best thing to do is become friends first. By being friends you'll get to know him better and know if all the things you like about him from a distance still hold true close up.


If you're already friends with your secret crush, be honest with yourself. Does it seem like he's interested in you? Is he always talking about other girls around you, or even asking other girls out? If he's making it clear that he's not interested in you in that way by saying things like, "You're such a great pal," you might want to think twice before you declare your love for him.


But if the two of you really are close and you think that he might be too shy to make the first move, or that he has no clue that you like him, then tell him how you feel. Okay, not exactly how you feel. You probably don't want to tell him you think he's more handsome that Matt Damon, or more intelligent than Einstein. But there's no harm in starting with little hints like inviting him to a school dance, to see a movie, or even asking him if he could ever see the two of you going out. Teenage crushes come and go so don't get upset if it doesn't work out.

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Posted April 09, 2014
I like this guy at my school he is in my grade but in different classes every time I'm near him I get all akward one time I snorted and step on his shoe then fell into him akward :( :)
Posted April 06, 2014
musiclover2002: If you REALLY like him and you are allowed to date, I would ask him out! He's obviously flirting with you plus you know he likes you anyways so it should be MUCH easier to ask him out! Hope this helps anyone else who has the same problem!
Posted September 14, 2013
what do i do
Posted September 10, 2013
now i have to sit beside one of them in class and he also knows i like him.and he stares at me,wont stop talking 2 me and he leans agenst my shoulder.
Posted September 03, 2013
there is two boys that i have a crush on.They are best buds and i have known one for four years and one for one year.i am friends with both of time my little sis was talking with them and they both have a crush on me! :)
Posted November 04, 2012
The guy I used to like is 15 (like me), and so 'popular with the ladies' as my grandma would say! All the girls just clump about him and give me not a chance to talk (im shy and not so popular) Even though I was kind of mad at him for it (we were sort of friends since we talked) I realized it wasn't his fault. After all, if I were a good-looking, conversational guy, I wouldn't mind some female attention! Now I like some other guy, years older than me, but he's not such a flirt and jokes around sometimes with me.
Posted September 10, 2012
i have had 2 boyfriends but never a crush;( if tat makes the least bit of sense
Posted October 29, 2012
i have a crush on my bestguy friend, i want to tell him but he might not feel the same way so why risk our friendship he makes me really happy! what do i do?
Posted September 22, 2012
there is this guy i like i told him how i felt today, he gave me a hug said me 2 and ranaway do u think that he likes me?? Shud i talk to him more about it? or just drop the subject? ADVICE PLZ
Posted September 02, 2012
I just need to get this off of my chest,so here goes.So the first day back at school I saw my guy friend for like 3 years now walking in the hallway but I didn’t say hi to him not even sure if he saw me hahaha but anyway skipping to the third day of school I was walking outside with my friends on the way home and he stopped talking to his I guess friends and came over and gave me this tight a** hug I was like “dang you tryna suffocate me haha” but he pulled away and I said I’ll see you later.So the next day I was walking in through the front of my school just in my own world looking in the teacher’s lounge being nosey as usual haha I’m really nosey but anyway after i looked in the TL I looked down then looked back up and he was in front of me I was like “what the heck where did you come from lol” But he gave me another tight hug and asked me about
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