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Added August 01, 2013

Teenage Breakups

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Hey BeingGirls,

So yeah, teenage breakups totally suck! There is no doubt about it, but if you remember to take care of you and give yourself time to heal, you WILL be OK. Although dealing with a teenage breakup is different for everyone, I believe there is some general information that you should think about when going through the teenage breakup blues.

In essence, with teenage breakups one of the most important things you can do is to deal with the sadness, pain, anger, confusion, and any other feelings you are going through upfront! Ugh, I know! Anyhow, don't feel like you have to blow through these feelings. Some people might say just get over it, but true friends and your family will know to give you the time and space to deal. Definitely use your friends and family as a shoulder to lean on.

At the same time, you shouldn't put yourself into a deep depression dwelling on your teenage breakup. You WILL have to move forward while dealing with the pain. Take one day at a time and get yourself to focus on new things.

Find a way to keep yourself busy and connected to the world.

At the end of the day, you have to let yourself know that you are an amazing wonderful person and you will date again. You are not a loser and you are NOT alone! Everyone goes through a breakup, even the hottest celebs!

Here are some ways to vent:

  • Surround yourself with all the music that you love by making a compilation of your favorite tunes that always put a smile on your face.
  • Get active: take a boxing or karate class or just get in a good cardio workout.
  • Physical altercations are not the best way to vent; instead, get an old pillow and use that as your punching bag or object to yell into.
  • Start painting, drawing, or putting your feelings into words through poetry, song, or story.

 

Talk it out. Find someone you can confide in and express your thoughts and feelings.

 

Good luck friends! Just remember that we will get through your teenage breakup together.

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shine_bright
shine_bright
Posted June 18, 2014
My bf broke up with me almost a week ago and i am still not over him even though he might.I regret now bcz he was my first kiss and i let him touch me in ways no other has done.I am done with dating for a long long time!
partyrockingpryncess
partyrockingpryncess
Posted August 02, 2013
me and my ex boyfriend broke up almost two months ago and im still in love with him and he already moved on u.u :'(
tomgirly
tomgirly
Posted April 23, 2012
i just reasently broke up with my bf bcuz it was just not working out. we never really talked and he wasnt romantic but over text he was sooo sweet and nice. but i hade to end it bcuz of stuff. now its all akward when we pass eachother in the halls. i had to return everything he gave me and like he tryes to give me fist bumps. but anyway he was really cute but i think that i still like him tho idk im crazy.
tina1287
tina1287
Posted May 05, 2012
When my boyfriend broke up with me i dressed up so pretty and he tried to ask me out again and i said no because he could of had all of this
Growth Hormone
Growth Hormone
Posted July 10, 2012
OMG!!! he is goth. goth really does suite him well. im scared that we might break up over a problem with his ex. i just dont want to break up, he is everything to me. i would die if he breaks up with me. but another thing that is true. that if your bf broke up with you, it probably just means that he wasnt worth it. or else he would have stayed with you. so i hope that me and my gothic boyfriend stay together. i lovee him sososo much!!!!!!!
Moo(:
Moo(:
Posted August 23, 2012
my boyfriend might breakup with me because another girl likes him :'( I can't belive he would do that to me!
born2bewild
born2bewild
Posted September 08, 2011
One of my best friends just broke up with his girlfriend. He is so sad :( It makes me sad seeing him like that. Hes like my brother and he is really hurting...he cant sleep or anything and his girlfrend broke up with him today and he called me a few mins after and he sounded soooo sad and dissapointed it broke my heart :'( Hes a great guy and he deserves better and i told him that but he didnt believe me :( He IS an AMAZING person and although i have a boyfriend and i dont think of him as more than a friend, i am sure he can do better. Ill get him to believe it sooner or later :)
queen supreme
queen supreme
Posted November 07, 2011
I feel so bad for teens who think they are gonna be 2gether 4 ever and then something happens and its over. i don't think i'll ever date in highschool because it seems like relationships never last long and its just not worth it. maybe if i were 18 i would consider.
btrjustinbieber
btrjustinbieber
Posted November 11, 2011
I just broke up with my bf... He was the sweetest guy ever. It felt like he was perfect...so cute and great personality. Cares about me more than ever...but I shouldn't have done what I did...I snuck my bf and now I had to break up with him...:(
PrincessAngie12
PrincessAngie12
Posted February 24, 2012
i have a bf. he is the best boyfriend i have had so far. OMG!!! he is goth. goth really does suite him well. im scared that we might break up over a problem with his ex. i just dont want to break up, he is everything to me. i would die if he breaks up with me. but another thing that is true. that if your bf broke up with you, it probably just means that he wasnt worth it. or else he would have stayed with you. so i hope that me and my gothic boyfriend stay together. i lovee him sososo much!!!!!!!
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