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How Can I Talk To My Mom About Personal Issues?

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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

I need to talk to my mom about puberty and stuff, but I don't know how to start! I want to get some pads just to be safe, but I'm afraid. If I ask her she'll freak out! Please help!

 

Emeline

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Dear Emeline,

Why not let mom know that you need to talk with her? Ask her to set aside some private time for the two of you. If you cannot ask to do this face-to-face, why not leave her a note or send her an email? It is really important to set up some kind of way to communicate with your mom. Maybe this is what your first "girl chat" should be about! Then you can move onto more personal topics once you have a comfortable way to communicate all set up.

 

Good luck!

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izzylous42
izzylous42
Posted June 16, 2014
hi my name is izabele and I do gymnastics I read in a panflit that if you do sports you should use tampons but my mom wont let me use tampons till I am older but if I where a pad I don't want people to see what do you think I should do ???? from izabele
Dancer873
Dancer873
Posted March 29, 2014
Thxs Being Girl for trying; but not enough info! ~ the one and only Dancer873
NaomiMcdonald
NaomiMcdonald
Posted August 28, 2012
Its easy to talk t oyour mom abbout it not your dad its quite harder
SuperCoolGal
SuperCoolGal
Posted March 29, 2014
Hi! I can tell you know that I'm having the same problem. But hang in their girl, and remember that your not the only one. I suggest maybe talking to a friend about how she asked to talk, and if your really scared, borrow one from a friend! Good luck! :)
Frozen
Frozen
Posted March 29, 2014
I just kinda came out with it. I was like, "Hey, Mom, can I get a bra, and maybe some pads, too, just to be safe?" I tried to act like it was no biggie. Worked great! :)
CottageBabe
CottageBabe
Posted August 02, 2012
@XmahluvaX me too LOL @Starfish9555 to make sure that dosnt happen again tell your mom in the note not to let anyone else see it!
I♥animals
I♥animals
Posted May 13, 2012
Wat i do is i write a note,give it to her,run away,and scream into my pillow 4 awile.then ill just deal with smiling uncontrolably wile feeling extremely weird and embarassed. LOL
Starfish9555
Starfish9555
Posted July 25, 2012
I try the note thing it was embarrassing cuz she left it out in the open and my brother read it??????
Starfish9555
Starfish9555
Posted July 25, 2012
Hey girls I need some help how do I get close to my mom I love her we are just not close I guess I'm a daddy's girl??
Stef123
Stef123
Posted July 27, 2012
@Pie rules, you should tell her that you need to talk to her when she is in a good mood then ask her anything that you need to and I bet she will be happy that you asked. If you have any more questions feel free to ask! ~PrissyChick:)
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