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Hi!

I'm 14 years old, but I still don't have a boyfriend. I have a crush, but I'm too shy to talk to my crush! I'm really afraid! No one, not even my best friend, knows about my feelings! I can't ask her or my mom about it! How do I talk to my crush? How to make him notice me?

 

Crystal

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Dear Crystal,

Find an opportunity when you can spend time with a possible crush and get to know him. Working on an activity or project together at school is one way to do this. Working with someone is a great way to get to know each other and to see if a relationship is possible. This will make conversation easy because you will have a shared interest to talk about.

 

Also, your mom can be a source of help with personal relationships. She's been through this time of life and has a lot to offer if you just give her a chance!

 

Good luck,

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Sportyswimer321
Sportyswimer321
Posted August 12, 2014
So I talk to my crush when I see him and he talks to me but idk if he likes me or not
CECE2
CECE2
Posted August 06, 2014
MY MOM DOESN'T CARE HONESTLY ONLY UNTIL IT GETS SERIOUS!!! I HAVE A BF!!! HE IS SO CUTE TOO!!! :)
Lannabre
Lannabre
Posted July 24, 2014
I had a crush on a guy but I told my friend and she told him and I made me so sad should I be mad or just forget about it??
shortyshorts978
shortyshorts978
Posted July 30, 2012
my mom does'nt even let me daate,i mean yesterday she slapped me for talking about my dad! so how am i able to talk to her when she child abuses me!
DValue
DValue
Posted March 29, 2014
Well, i'm reallyyy scare to tell my mom about it. She'll be like "Oh my god, you're WAYYY too young to have a boyfriend. And if I know you still have that boyfriend thingy in your head, you're grounded!!!!!!!!!" blah blah!
SuperCuteKitty
SuperCuteKitty
Posted June 07, 2014
Some moms let their daughters get boyfriends until they're, like, sixteen. However, my mom won't let me until I finish my studies... Which I'll be, like, thirty some. But, it's okay. I know my mom is just trying to protect me. I mean, I don't necessary need a guy to have love. I have my friends and family, and that's enough. I don't need someone else.
Saleste*~*
Saleste*~*
Posted June 23, 2012
I'm 13 years old & the boy I go out with now, we started off as best friends n 6th grade. Then n 7th grade I told him I liked him then I walked away cause I didn't no if he would like me back then later on that Ning he txted me saying he had liked me 2 then next thing ik he asked me out! So my advice 2 u is don't b scared 2 talk 2 ur crush u'll never no if he likes u back, & start off slow. :)
sweetiepie821
sweetiepie821
Posted April 29, 2012
i just started dating the guy i had a crush on FOREVER!! but i'm having trouble talking to him because he is soooooo cute and i like never talked to him before so i dont know much about him. is it to good to be true?
CrazyAwesome2
CrazyAwesome2
Posted May 08, 2012
Ok so I like this guy but we seriously dont have ANY classes together and the only time I see him is at the end of the day @ the bus rider line. I can NEVER find the nerve to talk to him. We barley know each other but im like have been obsessed. Help me?
Gymgirl999
Gymgirl999
Posted July 12, 2012
When I have a crush, I try to make a "plan" with my bff on how to make him notice me... I set a few goals and tried to acomplish them (ex. have a conversation, sit by him, chase him at recess when he asks me to play tag XD) then, when I finally work up my nerve to do those things, I get to tell my bff all about it... :)
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