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Added November 21, 2011

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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

My best friend got her period, and we talk about it all the time on the phone. She always informs me when it starts, where, and how heavy the flow is. Lately, it has made me uncomfortable. It makes me feel yucky. I'm not sure if I should tell her and if so how.

 

Thanks BeingGirl Experts,

Beverly

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Dear Beverly,

Why don’t you plan some private time to talk with your friend about this? Simply explain you aren’t as comfortable sharing the level of personal information she is able to share. Let her know you get uncomfortable hearing it. Tell her what you are/are not willing to discuss. While you do this let her know you think her being able to share is a positive thing but you just aren’t able to. Chances are she will understand. If she appears to get upset ask her to think about it from your comfort standpoint. She probably has never even considered this bothers you.

 

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Chocalote girl1311
Chocalote girl1311
Posted September 16, 2012
I started my period a week ago and it still hasn't stopped is this normal I just want it to be over!!
jellyebeangirl
jellyebeangirl
Posted July 21, 2012
only 2 of my friends have had there period including me an there not mature enoough to talk about it anyways but i would be really open if my friends asked me ? i wouldnt even care if anyones on the internet i didnt no asked me questions
Spunk&fun123
Spunk&fun123
Posted July 13, 2012
:D haha PMS is one of the only things we talk bout at my school... Everyone is just so open bout it..especially me an my friends.. If u thnk about it, it is kinda weird I guess but every girl goes through it and it is one of the things that me and all my friends have in common sOoo why be shyyy?:))) btw if ya have any q's I will be more than glad to answer themmm:) k?
Mercedesbabe11
Mercedesbabe11
Posted June 30, 2012
why is it weird to talk about every girl goes through it!!!!
Emkinz:D
Emkinz:D
Posted July 02, 2012
Weird to talk about THIS?! Ya kiddin me right now?! It's pretty much girl nature for this stuff (literally too!), so me and my fwends don't mind a bit! We talk about PMS quite a bit cuz we live it every day, ya know, so why pretend it doesn't matter or exist? But true, everybody doesn't gotta talk about PMS stuff... just if ya really don't mind at all. I talk about this stuff with my closest cousin and fwends cuz it's kinda fun... weird, huh?
micki mouse roxx8
micki mouse roxx8
Posted July 12, 2012
im not embarrassed to talk about my period with my friends cuz ik i can trust them...i dnt think any1 should b.
Faith♥horses!
Faith♥horses!
Posted March 14, 2012
Hey girls! I like it when friends talk openly about things like this...but, I've never had a friend who was SO open about going into so much detail and stuff! So, I guess I'm not in the same boat! :-D
sweetkitty14
sweetkitty14
Posted April 23, 2012
Im fine if a friend wants to talk openly about these matters, after all its a deep girl topic that shows confidence, but maybe there is a chance of going too far. I always try to keep certain things private, but i do like to chat about these things once in a while
bubblypenguin
bubblypenguin
Posted June 06, 2012
Wow, i really wish i had a friend that was THAT open about periods....my best friend doesnt really feel like one because shes in a different county, school, and grade as me. i don't think she knows what a period is, and has ZERO boobs. shes smaller and prettier than me, and sometimes i feel kinda uncomfortable around her, but i dont think she'll ever be this open to me XD
Moo(:
Moo(:
Posted May 08, 2012
My friends aren't usually comfortable talking about this. Well, only one friend but not alot. There was this girl who started her period when she was like 8 or 9. Now she's fully developed (We're both 13) but I'm a couple months older than her. She always seems embarrassed to talk about this kind of stuff and never does want to talk about it. So I try to leave that subject alone with her. I also still try to ask her what it's like to have her period.. because I don't.
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