Can She Get Pregnant Without Having Sex? Dear BeingGirl Experts, I am a 17-year-old guy writing to you because I didn't know who else to ask. My question is whether or not my girlfriend can get pregnant without us actually having sex. Sometimes when we hook up, I have an orgasm near (but not inside of) her vagina. Is it possible for the sperm to swim up into her vagina and get her pregnant? Concerned Boyfriend --- Dear Concerned Boyfriend, Because sperm have the ability to move on their own, it is possible for sperm (in semen) to find their way into your girlfriend's vagina and then up the Fallopian tubes to the waiting egg. This is pretty rare, but it could happen. Since you are sexually active, don't take chances. Practice safer sex by always using a condom even if your partner is on the pill or using another form of birth control. Abstaining and not having sex is the best plan. Hope this is helpful, Your BeingGirl Experts Wondering if you can get pregnant without having sex? Get answers from the BeingGirl expert.