What's the most important thing on your mind a few months before your high school prom? Aside from getting a date, that is. Chances are it's all about choosing the perfect prom dress. How do you go about finding the perfect prom dress that will be worthy of a lifetime memory, a night that promises to be more magical than 10 New Year's Eves, more special than your birthday, Christmas, and graduation combined? Before you even begin the hunt, think carefully about what you want. Tailored or lace? Vintage or custom made? Is this purchase a one-shot deal or a more practical special occasion dress?

To help transform your wishes into reality, we've compiled a list of some things to keep in mind when going shopping for the perfect prom dress.

Don't try to be something you're not

Although the prom has been a fantasy for so long, your perfect prom dress should reflect who you are—outdoorsy or poetic, athletic or introspective. Be natural and be true to your own personality. You will not be comfortable dressing against type. Don't buy a smaller size intending to lose weight. You will look great in any size if your dress fits well. Watch out for shoes that are too high or have thin straps that can dig in after a half hour. Keep in mind this is a night you want to look good and feel good. Accentuate your strengths. We all have figure flaws and assets. Be familiar with yours! The best way to hide flaws is to highlight good points. Be aware of what colors highlight your hair, eyes and skin tone, and what lines are most flattering to your body type. If you are heavy on the bottom, wear a brighter color or patterns on top or great jewelry (oversized chandelier earrings are big this season!) to draw attention to your assets. If you are heavier on top, do the opposite; wear brighter colors or patterns on the bottom. Thinner girls should look for fuller-cut dresses, nothing too clingy. Cocktail length dresses accentuate great legs, capped sleeves cover less than perfect arms, ball gowns hide big backsides and fitted, column dresses show off an hourglass shape.

Relax. Don't let the stress involved with finding the perfect prom dress interfere with the pleasure of experiencing one of life's memorable milestones. Have the confidence to believe that you are capable of making your own dreams come true. We know you can!