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Added November 22, 2011

My Period: What’s Normal, What’s Not

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My Period Information

It’s that time of the month...or so you thought. So why am I not getting my period? Your friends brag about how their period arrives like clockwork, coming every four weeks. They don’t understand how it feels to not have a clue when your red letter day is due to arrive. If their cycle is what’s called regular or normal, what’s my period called? Not normal? Before you get concerned that something is amiss, keep in mind we don’t believe there's anything irregular about you at all. To better understand your period’s comings and goings, you just need some more information!

 

It can’t be news that you are different from every other girl in the world. Your periods and menstrual cycles will be different too. Some of your friends feel it coming for days before they get it. Others are hardly aware they have it. Some might bleed for two days one month, and a week the next. In reality, most women don’t get their periods in exactly the same number of days after the last one. For teens, especially, there is a much broader definition of normal. Just as the age you begin to menstruate varies, so does the length of each period. A cycle can be as short as 21 days or as long as 35 days. At some point, as you grow, your light and unpredictable cycle will settle into a recognizable pattern.

 

My Period Facts

During the first year or two of having periods, "irregular" falls within the "normal" tent! 

 

Two out of three girls develop a regular pattern within two years after their period begins. So, within the first couple of years, it is not unusual to skip a period. Be aware that if you participate in sports that require long hours of practice, or are active in strenuous workouts like gymnastics or ballet, you may see less bleeding and/or shorter or less frequent periods. If you are dieting so strictly you’re not getting the calories you need, you’re denying your body the fat it needs to menstruate regularly. And if you’re really worried about an upcoming test...or distressed about a fight with a friend...or concerned about the health of a family member...your unique take on any of these stressors can affect the regularity of your period.

 

My Period: Things to Look Out For

See a doctor if you:

  • Are 16 and haven’t gotten your period yet.
  • Get periods that last longer than seven days for three cycles.
  • Experience a dramatic change from your typical periods.
  • Miss your period for six months straight.
  • Are passing large clots.
  • Are soaking through your pad or tampon hourly for two or more hours.
  • Are bleeding between menstrual periods.
  • Have pelvic pain for longer than a day that seems unrelated to your period.
  • Have severe pain while you’re menstruating unrelieved by OTC medication.
  • Are sexually active and missed a period.

 

For more My Period information or questions, ask the BeingGirl experts.

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HappyToBe21
HappyToBe21
Posted May 09, 2013
I've been irregular for 8 years now and i don't think going to the doctor will help me get a "regular" period
MadisonBailee13
MadisonBailee13
Posted January 21, 2013
I am 13 years old and i have a problem. I live with my dad and i got my first period in November. I didn't get it in December, but i got it a little early in January. It's only my first day and i have passed 6-7 huge clots within the same hour. What should i do? Is that bad? Should i go to the hospital?
mrzlizz23
mrzlizz23
Posted December 02, 2012
hello, i really wanna know what might be the problem that i haven't got my period for a month but then i got it the next month but spotting mostly. lease and thank yo. :D
123GymnastGirl
123GymnastGirl
Posted January 13, 2013
Does stressful activity, like gymnastics, affect your period? Somewhere I heard that tough sports can delay your period. Is this true?
Anntinkerbell
Anntinkerbell
Posted August 20, 2012
Rainbowsailor- Yes,it's normal. I have been seeing the same things between several of my frinds and judging from this article you have nothing to worry about.
Smart Source
Smart Source
Posted November 23, 2012
To X3.Wickedhyna.X3, I would suggest that you shouldn't worry about your odd period. I understand that you want to have children when you're older, but this type of period may show that it may be harder for you to get pregnant because this makes it difficult for you to ovulate. But don't worry, you still can get pregnant.
Kaitlyn299
Kaitlyn299
Posted August 12, 2012
@Wolly if it hasnt happend again then you may have not had your period maybe you just cut yourself "down there"
Rainbowsailor
Rainbowsailor
Posted August 16, 2012
Hi, I'm new to this site and having a period. I got my period on May 4,2012, and I had another around June 22,2012. Then in July I didn't get one, but seince my period was early in the month I thought this was normal. I have not had a period seince and now I'm getting pretty scared... I have not been active, I have had a lot of stress and I sometimes work out around that time period, so I was just wondering if this is normal?
briannabff
briannabff
Posted August 16, 2012
i started my period yesterday and ive been haveing a medium flow but im going to the mall tomorrow and im wondering should i wear a allays maxi pad or allways infinity regular my friends dont know im on
X3.Wickedhyna.X3
X3.Wickedhyna.X3
Posted August 02, 2012
im 17 ive had my period since 10 or 11 and my period has always been up and down like sometimes itll be last longer than 7 days sometimes itll only last for a few or itll come and then the next day be gone.sometimes its light and i pass small very small clots but 1 time i passed a very big clot and i was bleeding alot it scared the hell out of me i took a shower and i was fine. i just dont understand . im nervous about going to a OB/GYN and im a bigger gir so i think maby weight is my reason behind the fear of going and but ive talked to my mom about this problem i have and ive looked it up online and it says things about hormonal fluctuations , stress, and weight. i just dont know if what im expirencing is normal or not and i want kids one day and im worried that maby theses could be signs of infertility ? im not sure whats going on
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