My Boyfriend Is Older: Is That Okay? Dear BeingGirl Experts, My boyfriend is older, and we have been together for almost three months now. We both love each other a lot, and there is a good bit of age difference. He's going on 20, and I'm going on 16. We've never argued, but we have separated once before. What I was wondering is, should I put him to a test to see if he really loves me or not? Or should I just let it take its own course? All my friends think he's cheating on me, and I'm starting to think the same thing. Help!!! Kristine --- Dear Kristine, Your age difference makes for insecurities in the relationship. The two of you need to trust each other. He may, indeed, be too old for you and you are not really comfortable in the relationship. I don't know you or the history surrounding your relationship and won't be much help by guessing. I can't give you any answers, just something to think about. Good luck, Your BeingGirl Experts Get helpful advice for when my boyfriend is older from the dating experts at BeingGirl.com.