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My Boyfriend And My Friend Are Getting Too Close

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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

My boyfriend seems to be spending too much time talking to my friend. Should I say something to her or him? I don't know what to do. Help, please.



Dear Quinn,

If your boyfriend has not given you reason to worry he may be falling for your friend, don't make too big of a deal out of this. If you constantly question your boyfriend or drive him crazy acting like you don't trust him, you may drive him to do exactly what you are hoping he doesn't do.

Focus on your relationship and try to make it the best it can be, then he will have no reason to look elsewhere. This doesn’t mean you need to change who you are. It means be yourself and stop worrying about all the what-ifs.

Dating is supposed to be fun so enjoy this relationship!

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Posted June 14, 2012
Well...The best advice I can give you is to stick to your friend 20Dawgfan07. If you don't like the boy, say no and keep a friend rather than possibly losing a friend and a "potential" BF
Posted November 29, 2011
Hypothetically, what would I do if my friend's crush started falling for me, and I didn't like him, nor do I want to hurt my friend?


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