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Added November 21, 2011

Making New Friends

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How to go about making new friends when you're used to the old.

Moving away from friends or dealing with friends moving away from you can be tough. You have so many great memories, and have literally grown up with many of your buddies. But as you get older, you'll constantly meet new peopleat high school, college, and work.

 

And the good news is, making new friends is easy, especially friends who share your interests. In middle school, there are countless clubs and organizationsenvironmental, art, public service, to name a very few. There are also sports teams and bands and choral groups. Sign up! You'll meet a lot of new people.

 

The great thing about middle school is that you're surrounded by a lot of people your own age. Everyone's in the same boatthey all need to make new friends, too. So somebody just has to start the conversation.

 

A job is a good place for making friends, too, because you see the same people every day. It's easy to start a conversation, and sometimes that's all it takes to begin a great friendship. Just be yourself, and don't be shy.

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Arthritisisablessing
Arthritisisablessing
Posted March 25, 2012
Natalia, just group all of your friends together, decide on something to do, and have fun with all of them at once!
Arthritisisablessing
Arthritisisablessing
Posted March 25, 2012
Lesly, I'm sorta in your shoes. Just be confident and say, "Hey, I've seen you around. Want to hang out?" But don't get in the wrong crowd. Don't get pressured into drugs and all that stuff. Those won't be your friends if you go with them. They'll be your cellmates.
Arthritisisablessing
Arthritisisablessing
Posted March 25, 2012
Cattycat, I've been around those people. I know what your feeling. Just ignore them and go on and make real friends. If they talk to you or say like, "I wish she wasn't at school." (refferring to you) to one of their other friends, even though you're right there, just ignore them.
Arthritisisablessing
Arthritisisablessing
Posted March 25, 2012
lilmissdiva1234, look, if they're gossiping or anything, you shouldn't be their friends. They'll just use you. But if they are good, just start talking to them and if they one of them whispers something in another one's ear, just say, "Hey, what's happening?"
Arthritisisablessing
Arthritisisablessing
Posted March 25, 2012
je t'aime , I understand what you're going through. I was sorta like that at my old school. Look, you don't have to do anything with them out of school or anything, but just start joining in on the conversation. Also, talk to the people you sit around during class (when you can talk and not get in trouble). So yeah, just join in on the conversation. Or, you can talk to other shy, quiet girls!
JJxoxo
JJxoxo
Posted March 03, 2012
Uhhh..I am the shiest one in our big group. I talk a lot to THEM but when i dont know somebody i am soooo shy. Gonna miss my friends when i move next year. :(
JJxoxo
JJxoxo
Posted March 03, 2012
violetbananas, i switched to 3 schools too! It was so hard to make friends since i am so shy.
je t'aime
je t'aime
Posted February 24, 2012
I'm really really shy, so when I went to a high school that none of my old and really close friends went to, I had trouble making friends. I kinda joined a group and I eat w/ them at lunch, but I like never talk to them and we don't make plans outside of school. I'm like the quiet girl they let sit at their table and I just want friends like I used to have :( help please!
godessoflove
godessoflove
Posted January 14, 2012
i am very shy so i took this advice at the begining of the year and it helped a ton i have sooo many NEW friends!!!! :)
VioletBananas11
VioletBananas11
Posted January 10, 2012
lilmissdiva, I think you should ask your friend [from third grade], "Can I talk to you?" Or if you both have cell phones, tell her you want to text her something important after school and to check her phone soon enough. When she gets the message [when she knows about it], she might understand. If you are close frineds, then do NOT try the next sentence. If you are not very close, then read [How to end friedships], but I would try some other ways. Sorry if I hurt your feelings, or did not help.
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