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Added November 21, 2011

Just Like Mom

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When you were a little kid, you shared everything with your mom, you were just like mom. She knew what you did and what you thought from the moment you woke up to the moment you went to sleep. But lately, there's more stuff you want to keep private. You may have questions you feel she can't answer, and you may feel less just like mom than you were before. Then again, maybe you and your mom are closer than ever, and there's nothing you can't talk about.


Whatever your relationship is like, there's one thing for sure. You and your mom have a lot in common. Just being a female puts you in a special category with all other women.


When you have questions, you probably turn more to your friends and other great resources (like BeingGirl!) than to your mom. Here's a big secret: no matter how alike or different you are from each other, your mom was a girl once, too! You have questions just like mom. She went through what you're going through now.


This Mother's Day, you could do the usual cards, flowers, or breakfast in bed, but consider trying something new. Get in some mother-daughter bonding. Spend time together and you'll discover you have a lot more in common than you thought! You may not need your mom to pick out your clothes or wipe your nose anymore, but now she can be there for you in many new ways that are just as helpful.

 

Girl stuff: feminine products you and your mom have in common

Since Tampax tampons were introduced in 1936, chances are your mom and even your mom's mom heard about them, tried them, and may still use them today. Pads have been around since the beginning of last century (around 1900), so your mom and grandma knew about those too. Deodorant was invented in the late 1800s (thank goodness!), and guess what? Chances are your mom learned about it from her mom. In terms of getting rid of all that leg and armpit hair, Gillette invented the first razor created just for women in the early 1900s. When Gillette Daisy, the first disposable women's razor came out in 1975, your mom was introduced to a whole new way of taking it all off. What does this mean to you? Well, with all the same trusted brands and new and improved versions of these products, your mom is practically an expert on the topic of what to use and how to use it.

 

Hey, Mom! Let's talk.
Your mom may have decades of experience with the neat and not-so-neat joys of being a woman, but there's one area that may be new to her. Even if you're ready to talk to your mom about growing up, she may not know how to bring it up and talk about it with you. Well, now that you're becoming a woman just like mom, take charge of the situation and begin the conversation yourself! Not sure how? Here are some key conversation starters:

  • Mom, your legs look so nice and smooth. I think I'm ready to shave mine, too. Can you show me how?
  • How old were you when you first got your period?
  • Your deodorant smells nice. Can I get one for myself?
  • Can we go to the drugstore together? I'd like your advice on some girl stuff.
  • Mom, when you were in Junior High (or High School), did you ever feel out of place (or different, or however you're feeling now)?

 

Wondering when's a good time to start talking about being just like mom? Bring it up when you're in the middle of doing something togetherin the car, out in the yard, walking around the mall, or washing dishes. Keep it casual, not too serious. Talking with your mom about growing up and becoming a woman can be comfortable and easy. You'll learn a lot and it'll bring you closer together. Then, the next time you talk with your friends, you'll have the real scoop to share.

 

Have a good conversation with your mom about being just like mom? Talk about it in the comments section below!

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kariganteer
kariganteer
Posted May 11, 2012
I talk to my mom about everything. Like the other day she came up to me and was like "I'm going to the store. Pads or tampons?" she's my best friend.
Niya♥
Niya♥
Posted May 05, 2012
? Long Story ' Can't Explain ! :(
sadie504
sadie504
Posted April 29, 2012
my parents are so strickt.... they need to know everything.... i feel closterfobic and that i cant have any privacy.... lets hope as i groww up they chill out
IstartmyPERIOD
IstartmyPERIOD
Posted April 23, 2012
wow i never knowed that i got lots to do
btrlover
btrlover
Posted April 09, 2012
my BFF told me that me and my mom are like best friends(which is true and i will tell her anything)
Dancer4Life101<3
Dancer4Life101<3
Posted April 07, 2012
I have never talked to my mom about ANYTHING!! I really want to know when im allowed to date. How should i ask her?
Arthritisisablessing
Arthritisisablessing
Posted March 18, 2012
I never had any "talk" with my mom. I don't want to because I think she will look at me funny and visa versa. Sigh, I guess it will have to happen sometime. But I don't really like boys. I think that's just... I think it ruins fun. Like in elementary school, I played with boys. Most of my friends were boys. Now, in Middle school, boys and girls group off and if you talk to a boy, or look at one for more than two seconds, all of a sudden everyone is talking about how "you like him" or "you're dating" or something. Ugh. It ruins so much fun. And there's so much drama in it, and friendship sometimes and it should be just simple, like in elementary school.
Arthritisisablessing
Arthritisisablessing
Posted March 18, 2012
Mzviolinist, I'm sorta like you, I get mad because if I get even a little moody, she says I'm getting to "that age" even though I've been like that all my life. We are close. Maybe a little to close. She always said I'm independant and responsible, but she still treats me like a child. That's why I get an attitude and we end up in a big fight. I don't yell, but she does and cuses. It makes me real sad, and I go in my room and just sulk. She gets mad over the littlest thing. I don't know what to do, or say. That's why I don't want to do much with her. It's all baby stuff too. Like watching movies I outgrew. But I do love her, even though she annoys me a lot. I don't mean anything, but maybe your exaggerating?!
Casey>.~99
Casey>.~99
Posted March 18, 2012
I never had the sex talk with my mom or dad I figured out walhat sex was all on my own and what a period was and when we were gonna have the (talk) I just said mom I already know these things!!!
imajesusrose
imajesusrose
Posted February 26, 2012
being yourself1731, im just like u wow. i was scared to have the sex talk with my mom but now its totally normal
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