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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

I really like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. Is it wrong for me to flirt with him, even though I know he has a girlfriend?

 

P.S. He flirts back.

 

Jhana

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Dear Jhana,

You probably know the answer to this question. Ask yourself, “If another girl did this with my boyfriend, how would I like it?” Chances are you wouldn’t be too happy to find a girl flirting with your guy. Act mature and leave him alone until he is available.

 

Put your energy and feelings to good use by thinking about the things you like about the guy you are flirting with. Keep these traits in mind as an important trait you would want in someone you might date, and who is available. If he is really funny, then that may mean you might like a guy with a good sense of humor.

 

Treat others with the same respect you want to be treated with!

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Dandandane
Dandandane
Posted September 02, 2012
XD
micki mouse roxx8
micki mouse roxx8
Posted June 28, 2012
i always flirt wit guys lol so i good:p
tellilolz
tellilolz
Posted March 26, 2012
theres this guy i really like but he has a girlfriend he called me pretty, sexy, and hot 2 times . i think its cheating but I'm having trouble getting over him what should i do????
Musicmiss99
Musicmiss99
Posted February 04, 2012
I think flirting is okay, but don't overdue it! People might think you're slutty if u do.
J.aldeanLvr93
J.aldeanLvr93
Posted October 18, 2011
flirting is okay, just don't make yourself out to be promiscuous
rayzy
rayzy
Posted September 08, 2011
I don't think a little flirting is bad. I mean I bet you 9 times out of 10 his girlfriend flirts with guys to. So I don't think any harm is being done seriously. I honestly wouldn't care if my bf was flirting as long as he isn't cheating like kissing and other things because truth be told I would flirt with other dudes to who cares nothing is really going on so it is harmless.
queen supreme
queen supreme
Posted August 24, 2011
That is not fair to flirt with him when you know he has a girlfriend. how would u feel if you had a bf and he flirted with girls when u were around? I'm betting u wouldn't like it. so don't do that to someone else.
Roseam
Roseam
Posted July 26, 2011
i honestly think a little flirting is ok as long as your not going heavy or overboard a little flirting can put yourself out there so when they do break up he'll know your a option. (its happened to me before it was harmless)
raychull$
raychull$
Posted July 08, 2011
i dont think its right. its not fair to him, and its not fair to you most importantly. in a way, he is leading you on. how would u feel if you were going out w/ a guy and he was flirting with other girls behind your back. it hurts. so if i were you, id tune it down a little. plus, if that girl finds out, who knows how she'll react! try to save ya self! hope i helped! xo, rachael
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