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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

Well, my question is that every guy that I have ever liked has never liked me. Then the guys I don't like always like me. I can never talk to the guys I like. But the guys that like me, I can talk to them, no problem. Why? And why don't the guys I like, like me back?

 

Ellie

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Dear Ellie,

Most teens experience this. You'll get past this, honest! It is often uncomfortable talking with the person you most want to impress.

 

The right boy will come along. Just be patient—forcing the issue doesn’t help. Keep doing the things you enjoy—people are more attracted to someone who is involved in interesting things and in someone who looks like she's having fun. Try expanding the circle of people you know by joining new activities.

 

Crushes are a natural part of growing up. A crush lets you try on all kinds of new feelings, sort of like going into a store and trying on all kinds of clothes without having to buy them. Crushes help you experience romantic feelings. You also get to consider what you like in other people. You learn how to deal with frustration when you can't get what you want. All of this helps you get ready for the day you get into a real relationship with someone.

 

When it comes to conversation with guys ask about things in his life you know are important to him—family, sports, hobbies, etc. Ask him about his likes and dislikes. When he talks, try to pay attention to what he is saying. This way when he mentions something he is doing, you can ask him about it later.

 

Become a good listener! Be open to what you are hearing because this is how you learn to know which person you want to know more about.

 

Good luck,

Your BeingGirl Experts

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DValue
DValue
Posted April 06, 2014
i never say "hi" or "how are you" to the guy i like -_- . i have very difficult to talk to guy i like. i feel confused .
Spookylie
Spookylie
Posted January 07, 2014
i talk a lot about things with my bf but he never looks like" i don't care"
ChickaCheer101
ChickaCheer101
Posted December 15, 2012
I've dated this guy that I really like and I think he likes me because he was staring at me in math class today. How do I get him to make the first move?
Purpose1
Purpose1
Posted November 28, 2013
There was this guy and his name was Alex. He is my bestest friend. He gives me hugs everyday and my friends think we're dating. I tell them we're just really good friends. They keep daring me to ask him out but I'm too scared. What should I do?!!!
Smile1720158
Smile1720158
Posted October 29, 2012
i have a crush on a guy (we will call him pink;P) well pink is in 3 of my classes. in one of my classes when we do partner work like pick cards with numbers and who has the same number you work with them. well we seam to alway have the same number. is this a sign?
Stef123
Stef123
Posted April 01, 2013
@chickacheer101, You do not have to make him make the first move. It will happen when the time is right. If he really likes you and wants to talk to you then he will come to you. If you have anymore questions feel free to ask!!~PrissyChick:)
CloeKhan
CloeKhan
Posted April 23, 2012
What happens with me is i start to like the guy that I have a very good relationship with. All of the guys I've liked, I've known for years and it makes it easier for me beacsue, I'm used to talking to them. Only 2 of the guys I liked I've been afraid to talk to them but after I got used to seeing them around I would try to involve myself with them more. Get in groups with them, talk to them, or atleast be noticed. IT HELPS ME! :)
spongeluv8
spongeluv8
Posted June 15, 2012
Yeah I like this guy and i have fallen in love with him i mean i text everyday and its just so hard. he knows i like him cus i told him. he cool with it. thats why i like him, he's so understanding!!
sweetkitty14
sweetkitty14
Posted October 09, 2012
There's a guy I like, but im not sure he likes me back...still, when i meet him, i can't stop talking! Im such a big mouth, and the worst part is, he often stops paying attention to me while im talking. I guess im that annoying. life is so not fair.
XxFuzzy LovexX
XxFuzzy LovexX
Posted May 26, 2012
Thanks this really helped cuz i like this guy but he liked me in 1st grade and i like him right now and i am not sure if he likes me back he just told me that he sometimes has feelings for me
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