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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

My best guy friend asked me out the other day. We are good friends, and I told him that I don't want to ruin our friendship. Now he is really sad, and I feel really bad. What can I do to make him happy again?

 

Jolie

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Dear Jolie,

Great guy friends make really great boyfriends. Having said this, I can also tell you no matter what happens, your relationship won't be same once you date one another. It will get weird between you. You are smart to not let it get weird between you.

 

Teen dating relationships don’t usually make it much past high school. Why don’t your remind him of this? Let him know you value his friendship too much to risk losing it. In the mean time understand rejection is tough on all of us. Give him some time and let him see you still want to be his friend.

 

Good luck,

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AFRICANpink
AFRICANpink
Posted July 16, 2013
If you don't feel okay about dating someone,tell the person how you feel,sometimes your best guy friend may not be your mr. perfect
NEWNEW1
NEWNEW1
Posted July 15, 2013
well if you truly like him maybe try writing him a love letter to explain how you feel and see what he says. and never allow anyone to push you around
sweetshortcakeistasty
sweetshortcakeistasty
Posted July 03, 2013
i dont have crush yet and i am 15 i like to be alone because iam sensitive he cane break my heart and that feeling is omg never gonna love someone seriouly i dont trust any guy in the whole universe
7a5ef1313ac248efbb0549d1b2a618fd
7a5ef1313ac248efbb0549d1b2a618fd
Posted July 04, 2013
Okay so there is this guy I really like and i know he likes me bak but we kinda just flirt, he gets mad easily and then he'll be really happy, i get so confuzzled. He calls me his girlfriend and he say he doesn't mean it that way and i'm like koool. Then yesterday my best friend was hanging out with her crush and he already has a girlfriend and when i would try to talk to her she would completely ignore me! I got so mad and then this one girl pushed me out of the way and sat next to my best friend. And my crush saw that i was mad and made me a little bit happier. I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVVVVVVEEEEEE HIMM. Everyone says we're a good couple bc we both wear glasses and act the same. Oooohh i don't know what to do keep on crushing on him bc he also likes another girl and they are closer than me and him. ;(
Britt7731
Britt7731
Posted July 15, 2013
ok there is this boy and i have a crush on him and im not sure if he likes me like i like him. my friends say to just tell him but im worried that it might mess up our friendship.because im in lllllooooovvvvveeeeee with him.:)
unicornqueen
unicornqueen
Posted July 04, 2013
That helped...(NOT REALLY I LOST MY BEST GUY FRIEND FOR DOING THAT GRRRRRRR)
middle skool gurl
middle skool gurl
Posted October 09, 2012
at school i hand out with a group and they are all my friends but one of them is my best friens and one of my other friends(in the group)are getting jelus and calling me a back stabber and now shes ignoing me.what should i do
middle skool gurl
middle skool gurl
Posted October 09, 2012
i have a crush on one of my guy friends and we are relly close but im do shour if he likes be back because the other day he said you me thatim like a sister to him sooo should i tell is pleas tell me what you think ....
READY 2KNOW14918
READY 2KNOW14918
Posted August 16, 2012
IF HE IS SAD HE IS NOT U REAL FRIEND IF HE REALY LOVES U HE WILL GET OVER IT AND KNOW THAT IF U R REAL FRIENDS DATING AND BRAKING UP SHOUDNT HURT U RELATOINSHIP (:
love13cute
love13cute
Posted July 03, 2013
i have a crush on one of my guy friends we have been friends for almost 4years but i don't know if he likes me back . he showed me how to play the piano it was very sweet :)that's when i relized i liked him
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