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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

I kissed my boyfriend for the first time in my life, but I feel very weird about it. What is wrong with me? How do you kiss your boyfriend?

Hadley

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Dear Hadley,

New experiences aren't always comfortable. Think about when you learned to ride a bike. You weren’t an expert from the beginning. You needed repetition and time to become confident on your bike. We all learn to deal with new experiences, and the experiences begin to feel natural with repetition and time. This happens with a kiss too. Practice makes perfect!

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lucyslemonade
lucyslemonade
Posted July 21, 2012
Okay so it was freshman year in highschool and I had a boyfriend named Jacob and he told myself and my friend that he wanted to hold hands and kiss me because we had been going out for at least four days I think?? Anyway I was like yeah sure whatever to the holding hands thing but of course he didn't get that. ps I had already told him that I had never kissed a guy before and of course his response was "Let me be your first" merp. Anyway so I hug him goodbye after school and I try to let go but he's still holding on to me so I look up at him and I immediately know that he wants to kiss me.. So as I'm looking at him I notice like a little bit of white stuff at the edge of his mouth which was a major turn off and I would no way no how let that be how my first kiss be so I shook my head hugged him again and said bye. We ended up only dating for a total of eight days.
lucyslemonade
lucyslemonade
Posted July 21, 2012
And I have to agree with some of these other comments you have to be ready to be intimate with someone and comfertable with them enough to let them feel you up and swap saliva. :) But I have to admit there were times in past relationships where I really want to kiss them but it would be nice if the man would take the iniciative instead of asking if he could hold your hand and kiss you. It's just a turn off
iluvJB!
iluvJB!
Posted July 21, 2012
@soccergir16 I totally agree. I know first hand. I had my first kiss in second or third grade. We were just friends, but we both wanted to know what all the fuss was about, so he kissed me. After that I thought that I would just wait until the time was right and I wouldn't even count that as my first kiss, unfortunately, in 6th grade I had a boyfriend that didn't know my boundaries so one day when he was walking me to the bus, he kissed me. I got really mad and ran off. I explained why to him the next day, but he just told me to get over it. So I did, I dumped him and now I have a bf that respects my boundaries and won't do anyting without asking first. Some people might thing that's weird, but I think it's sweet.
Dunn Brooklyn
Dunn Brooklyn
Posted July 21, 2012
@Soccergirl.. You're not crazy!! I haven't had my first kiss either, but the first kiss doesn't mean the same for everyone, so if we think it should be something unforgettable and special, then let's just wait! We don't have to let it be less pretty than we want it to be just because of what others say ;) We have to make the best of it, after all there will be just one first kiss <3
Ariana7372
Ariana7372
Posted July 21, 2012
MY first kiss was with this superhot guy in class when the teacher went out, everyone saw including my friends who all had crushes on him.
sayjaygirl
sayjaygirl
Posted July 21, 2012
@soccergirl16 You're not crazy. All my friends are the same way. They date guys and a week into the relationship they kiss and then the relationship ends the next day. I have been dating my bf for 5 months and we still haven't had our first kiss. Neither of us had ever kissed anybody else, too.
FreshTillDeath27
FreshTillDeath27
Posted July 09, 2012
@Baby_Girl <3 Aww!! so adorable ,im just afraid when i kiss someone .... ill like totally mess up! maybe its just me or yall think the same thing ?
Baby_Girl <3
Baby_Girl <3
Posted July 07, 2012
my first kiss was at one of my best friends graduation party at that time i was 15... I was talking to this guy for like 5 days and he was there, the whole night we stayed by each other and before he left he kissed me :) i was so nervous that like i didnt have the huge "explosion" then, but than we went one 3 dates and on the 2nd one we went bowling, it was the BEST!!! when he kissed me that time i had big ol' butterflies and it was to perfect :) now we are dating and VERY happy :)) one thing to keep in mind is to find a guy your parents like :) luckily my parents love him <3
soccergrl16
soccergrl16
Posted July 19, 2012
still haven't had my first! all my friends laugh, but i think a first kiss should mean something. it should be special, not wih some guy who's going to dump you toorrow.. lol am i crazy??
<3barbie girl<3
<3barbie girl<3
Posted July 14, 2012
I hope my first kiss with my boyfriend will be perfect!!!
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