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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

Why does my friend get all the guys?

Leah

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Dear Leah,

It can be difficult when it seems like your friend is the one who always gets attention from the guys. There are a couple of things you can do about this...

  • Notice what it is your friend does that others find attractive. I am not saying you should copy her exactly, but maybe there are some qualities she has you could work into your own style.
  • If you just assume you will fade into the background next to your friend, then you probably will. Do your best to be friendly and outgoing. SMILE! Get involved in the conversation.
  • Remember, this is not a competition. You have wonderful, special qualities the right guy will notice.
  • Try taking an interest in a different group of guys. Maybe the ones the two of you always like are not the right guys for you! Expand your circle a bit—maybe new people will see you a bit differently than your usual crowd. Maybe you will feel more comfortable, too!

Hope this is helpful,

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Kalyee
Kalyee
Posted October 27, 2014
Well this happens all the time for me my friends have all had at least one boyfriend I have never dated before so I feel kinda like the odd girl out.But they say me and this guys who is a total jock and he is really full of him self would make a good couple and they wont tell me why any Idias?????
Kalyee
Kalyee
Posted October 27, 2014
dear girlfoever I think u toatly desever a guy but if they treat u badly it is a wast of time if u r going to date a guy he should respect u
JaminJulia
JaminJulia
Posted July 24, 2014
there is this REALLY cute boy who goes to my school Notre Dame Elementary. Idk if he likes me, but he smiles at me, talks to me, and touches me. :D
Sportyswimer321
Sportyswimer321
Posted August 12, 2014
I like this boy lately he's been really nice and goofy but idk if he's flurting and if he likes me
Thrinety
Thrinety
Posted July 24, 2014
I have a big crush on this boy he is 2 years older then me and I don't know what to do
cuteness456
cuteness456
Posted September 11, 2014
There was this guy she was a total loser once he offered me a gum and I said no and he took the gum out of his mouth and put it in front of my face the next class he took my notebook andsince there was a drawing of a girl on it he pretended to kiss her after that the next class since we got the same ggrades on a test he said that we where a pair quietly so no one else could hear it and once he said he was feeling hot and maybe I should hug him like I said total loser
contour13
contour13
Posted June 30, 2014
Me and my boyfriend brokeup and then I started dating someone else but I still had feelings for my old boyfriend
Hooplaluvawesome
Hooplaluvawesome
Posted May 30, 2014
I like this guy but I'm only ten and I can't date but I really like him and I'm super mature. I don't know what to do,because he's my friend and I don't want it to be awkward if we break,up and I'm freaking out because I have never asked a guy before and because the guys at my school talk about me and all the girls but never confront me and ask me out. I'm freaking what should I do? I need help fast
girlfoeva
girlfoeva
Posted October 22, 2013
Okay so there's this guy. He asked me out but when a girl named Kyndall asked if he was dating me, He said no it was all a joke :( Nobody likes me and I mean, im always sweet, and nice to people and especially guys but they always seem to play me.
Sonikku
Sonikku
Posted September 16, 2013
Really?!? Girls be yourself when boys and people want to be my friend I say " I you can't handle me don't be my friend" that's the truth cuz I'm all different and wired and crazy and sometimes stupied xD But I have plenty of friends that know the real me ~Reagan
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