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Added April 26, 2013

How To Get A Boy To Like You

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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

Why does my friend get all the guys?

Leah

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Dear Leah,

It can be difficult when it seems like your friend is the one who always gets attention from the guys. There are a couple of things you can do about this...

  • Notice what it is your friend does that others find attractive. I am not saying you should copy her exactly, but maybe there are some qualities she has you could work into your own style.
  • If you just assume you will fade into the background next to your friend, then you probably will. Do your best to be friendly and outgoing. SMILE! Get involved in the conversation.
  • Remember, this is not a competition. You have wonderful, special qualities the right guy will notice.
  • Try taking an interest in a different group of guys. Maybe the ones the two of you always like are not the right guys for you! Expand your circle a bit—maybe new people will see you a bit differently than your usual crowd. Maybe you will feel more comfortable, too!

Hope this is helpful,

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Charjudith
Charjudith
Posted April 29, 2013
There's this boy, i like him, I'm pretty sure he likes me. I want to know his number ! I was thinking of like, casually asking him if he has a phone, then if he does, be like, " I do too." Here's what my number is" idk, I'm soooo nervous to do it though! :/. Help!
Kayzer0100
Kayzer0100
Posted April 01, 2013
skyoneal100(did i get that right(: hope so) anyway i agree with you i had this reallyyyyy big crush on this guy and i told one of my friends and she told his gf and she told him and bfore we NEVER talked and now i think he likes me ~caligurlll~
skyoneal01
skyoneal01
Posted January 15, 2013
They are right!!! Being outgoing is defiantly a smart thing to do. I had a crush on this guy for months but i hardly spoke to him and i was really shy. I kept waiting for him to ask me out. Then one day my friend convinced me to talk to him. He gave me his number, and once we talked a while he asked me out! Than i realized if i wouldn't have talked to him he would have never asked me out. Guys are shy to, im not saying you should ask him out. But dont expect them to make the first move if you show no interest in them first! Last week was our 6th month anniversary :)
Charjudith
Charjudith
Posted April 01, 2013
THER is a boy, that i REALLY like at school, he is sooo cute, and funny, and his voice makes me queasy, it's very like deepish i guess. I feel so weired when I get close to him idk if he likes me though, but I think he might.
laur.99
laur.99
Posted January 13, 2013
im one of the more popular people at my school. i dated this 1 boy in 6th grade then we broke up. i still like him tho. he asked out this one girl this year and now i dont know what to do...she didnt say yes. he always looks at me when were changing classes wont that b akward to tell him i like him...HELP!!!
kaaybaybee
kaaybaybee
Posted December 20, 2012
I believe it is okay to ask a boy out. I know it isn't traditional and that bothers some girls. If you change the scenario a little bit like what if he likes you but is shy or confuse to make that first step to ask you. If you pick up hints that he is into you & youre into him then ask. rejection is scary, i understand but if you never try than you'll never know.
lolgirl29
lolgirl29
Posted October 18, 2012
OMG I like this boy but i don't know how to talk to him!! Help Please!!
HBsurfer323
HBsurfer323
Posted December 15, 2012
Girls !!!!! do not ask the guy out...this willl just make you sound desperate... if the guy is into you he will leave signs whetheer hes teasing you or flirting with u let him ask you out!!!!
attail3333
attail3333
Posted December 02, 2012
I got a crush on this boy at school. my BFF says he is EXACTLY like me and it is Obvious (even though i'm not sure) that he likes me bak. how can i be sure he really likes me and if he does, then what?
meercat08
meercat08
Posted October 09, 2012
I have a crush on my guy friend and my friend thinks I should ask him out!? I talk to my friend a lot and today she told me that she has a boyfriend....... What should I do!!!!!?????? Please help!:(
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