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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

Why does my friend get all the guys?

Leah

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Dear Leah,

It can be difficult when it seems like your friend is the one who always gets attention from the guys. There are a couple of things you can do about this...

  • Notice what it is your friend does that others find attractive. I am not saying you should copy her exactly, but maybe there are some qualities she has you could work into your own style.
  • If you just assume you will fade into the background next to your friend, then you probably will. Do your best to be friendly and outgoing. SMILE! Get involved in the conversation.
  • Remember, this is not a competition. You have wonderful, special qualities the right guy will notice.
  • Try taking an interest in a different group of guys. Maybe the ones the two of you always like are not the right guys for you! Expand your circle a bit—maybe new people will see you a bit differently than your usual crowd. Maybe you will feel more comfortable, too!

Hope this is helpful,

Your BeingGirl Experts

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girlfoeva
girlfoeva
Posted October 22, 2013
Okay so there's this guy. He asked me out but when a girl named Kyndall asked if he was dating me, He said no it was all a joke :( Nobody likes me and I mean, im always sweet, and nice to people and especially guys but they always seem to play me.
Sonikku
Sonikku
Posted September 16, 2013
Really?!? Girls be yourself when boys and people want to be my friend I say " I you can't handle me don't be my friend" that's the truth cuz I'm all different and wired and crazy and sometimes stupied xD But I have plenty of friends that know the real me ~Reagan
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Posted August 20, 2013
I am stuck between 2 boys :(
BlakeBsgirl
BlakeBsgirl
Posted August 06, 2013
I agree with kaaybaybee because if you never do anything, than you'll never know.last year,in 5th grade,i know im kinda young but who really cares,i put a message in a boys' locker and it was asking for a date and he said no but when im 16 i can(his mom is our math teacher who is really strict)and he said he did kinda like me and said i have a beautiful smile.if i didnt go for that chance, i wouldnt know now.
Sugarcup123
Sugarcup123
Posted July 23, 2013
Dear experts, How can I get a certain boy at school to like me for who I am?
Sonikku
Sonikku
Posted September 16, 2013
@ Lillypad85925 Omg! Baby Boo that happened to my friend and the 5th time he broke her heart I want up to him and told him he'd be beggin on his knee for cuz she's amazing and Hun he should be like that to you if you like him just make him think he's lost somethin so special, and I was you. Don't let him play you. You have friend that love (no homo) you. Your one of a kind <3 ~Reagan
lilypad85925
lilypad85925
Posted July 03, 2013
I feel pathetic. I have dated this one guy 3 times and we've broke up 3 times. The sad part is that I'm still into him. He is the only guy that is nice enough to be caught talking to me or dancing with me at dances or in general. : ( any suggestions?
Charjudith
Charjudith
Posted April 29, 2013
There's this boy, i like him, I'm pretty sure he likes me. I want to know his number ! I was thinking of like, casually asking him if he has a phone, then if he does, be like, " I do too." Here's what my number is" idk, I'm soooo nervous to do it though! :/. Help!
Charjudith
Charjudith
Posted April 01, 2013
THER is a boy, that i REALLY like at school, he is sooo cute, and funny, and his voice makes me queasy, it's very like deepish i guess. I feel so weired when I get close to him idk if he likes me though, but I think he might.
Kayzer0100
Kayzer0100
Posted April 01, 2013
skyoneal100(did i get that right(: hope so) anyway i agree with you i had this reallyyyyy big crush on this guy and i told one of my friends and she told his gf and she told him and bfore we NEVER talked and now i think he likes me ~caligurlll~
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