How To Get A Boy To Like You Dear BeingGirl Experts, Why does my friend get all the guys? Leah --- Dear Leah, It can be difficult when it seems like your friend is the one who always gets attention from the guys. There are a couple of things you can do about this... Notice what it is your friend does that others find attractive. I am not saying you should copy her exactly, but maybe there are some qualities she has you could work into your own style. If you just assume you will fade into the background next to your friend, then you probably will. Do your best to be friendly and outgoing. SMILE! Get involved in the conversation. Remember, this is not a competition. You have wonderful, special qualities the right guy will notice. Try taking an interest in a different group of guys. Maybe the ones the two of you always like are not the right guys for you! Expand your circle a bit—maybe new people will see you a bit differently than your usual crowd. Maybe you will feel more comfortable, too! Hope this is helpful, Your BeingGirl Experts Learn how to get a boy to like you with answers from the BeingGirl expert.