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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

What is your opinion on "friends with benefits"? I think you should address that on the website because a lot of girls are experiencing it (or already have).

 

Evie

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Dear Evie,

If you are looking for a relationship with a guy, friends with benefits is not the way to achieve this. If you start fooling around together before developing an emotional bond, you are not likely to ever end up being more than just a convenience to him. The relationship becomes all about the physical, and there is never an opportunity to really talk and get close.

 

Lots of girls get hurt this way. They think this is a way to get close with a guy, but it isn't. Girls usually end up having feelings for a guy they are being intimate with. Guys, however, don't always feel so personally involved with the girl they are being physical with. This is a hard lesson to learn in the end, the girl often ends up feeling used and hurt.

 

Ask anyone who has tried this kind of arrangement, and they will probably agree. If you want to be more than just a pit stop, first spend some time getting to know this guy better and developing a long-term, committed relationship. If he is not willing to do this, then he is not the right person to be having intimate relations with!

 

Hope this helps,

Your Beinggirl Experts

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SuperCuteKitty
SuperCuteKitty
Posted June 23, 2014
My advice is not to have any sex until you get married. That way, you can get to know the guy better.
SuperCuteKitty
SuperCuteKitty
Posted June 23, 2014
My advice is not to have any sex until you get married. That way, you can get to know the guy better.
Camille<3
Camille<3
Posted August 12, 2012
@ForeverGurl Friends with benefits is when you don't have a relationship with a guy or girl but you're doing sexual stuff with them, because all you want is that, but none of the committment. Honestly it's not a good idea because every girl is emotional and after going far with a guy, you can become attached and everything could turn out bad. #Experience, good luck(:
RedRideHd
RedRideHd
Posted October 18, 2012
I know some people who have a FWB and are afraid to admit it. I know its basically having sex and doing other sexual things without being committed, but maybe there are some "benefits" from it but I think it can do more harm than good. I mean what if you end up getting pregnant from a FWB situation? Then what?
aji96
aji96
Posted November 11, 2012
theres this guy and his acts gay but idk and he likes me. im social studies he said he loved me but i dont like him.
Trinaaaa
Trinaaaa
Posted April 19, 2014
me and my boyfriend broke up last summer but we still contiinue to be friends with benefits and say the "L" word , is this healthy or no ?
jammer121
jammer121
Posted July 02, 2012
forevergurl FWB's are friends that sleep with each other but don't talk are hang out. it is a very bad idea
jellyebeangirl
jellyebeangirl
Posted July 21, 2012
forever girl friends with benefits means "doing it" or having sex with a dude an not talk to them again
micki mouse roxx8
micki mouse roxx8
Posted June 28, 2012
THX!!!!
mathnerd110%
mathnerd110%
Posted July 24, 2012
Actually jellyebeangirl and forevergurl friends with benefits are when you are a boy's sideshow and not his main squeeze. When he uses all you can give but you're only friends
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