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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

OK, I am in love with my boyfriend. We have been together for two months and just the other day my so-called best friend tells everyone at the lunch table that she likes him. Well, not to be mean or anything, but she likes every guy she thinks is cute, and get this, she hasn't even seen my boyfriend. Ever since that day, I haven't talked to her. What do I do? Please help!! What do I do? Please help!!




Dear Kayla,

He is your boyfriend. You can nurture this relationship. What you can’t do is control what anyone else thinks about him.


Not talking to your friend because she likes him doesn’t make sense. Stop obsessing about what she said. You know she tends to like the guys she thinks are cute. What she said is probably harmless considering she hasn’t met him. When you mend the friendship with her, then you have the opportunity to encourage her with guys she has a chance with.


If she is really a best friend, she's going to be a part of your life a lot longer than many of the boyfriends each of you will have. I hope that you can go back to being friends and help her to find her own special guy.


Good luck,

Your BeingGirl Experts

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Sapphire Kitty
Sapphire Kitty
Posted April 06, 2014
I have a friend who likes every boy our age
Posted February 15, 2014
Also, boys don't know what they want. And friends sometimes want to make you jealous. So don't worry about ur friend and it bf.
Posted February 13, 2014
Hey. I have had a bf before for like 5 minutes!! He broke up with me but then he got with my best friend. She said I didn't know you guys dated when I told her that already at lunch. I got mad, but guess what? He broke up with my BFF after two days then asked ME out AGAIN!!! I said no but then he said sorry and ever since we have been together for like a year or something. I did forgive him but only for specific reasons. So never let a guy tear up it relationship with ur BFF. NEVER!!


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