Should I Fool Around With Him? Dear BeingGirl Experts, There is this guy who wants to do some things with me. He said we are not going to have sex, just other stuff, and that I don't have to do anything that I am not ready for. He also told me I am too young to date but not to do "things" with. What should I do? Justine --- Dear Justine, This is a guy you don’t want to get involved with. He's a user! Move on. Guys like him hurt girls. He isn’t interested in anyone but himself. When a guy doesn’t want to get to know and spend time with you, he isn’t interested in you. He just wants the convenience on his terms. The right guy will come along. Just be patient. Go ahead and keep doing the things you enjoy—people are more attracted to someone who is involved in doing interesting things, and who looks like she's having fun. You can also try expanding the circle of people you know by joining new activities. Usually a boyfriend will come along when you least expect it or aren't even busy looking for one! The type of relationship you want is worth waiting on! Your BeingGirl Experts Looking to fool around? First, get helpful tips and advice from experts at BeingGirl.