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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

There is this guy who wants to do some things with me. He said we are not going to have sex, just other stuff, and that I don't have to do anything that I am not ready for. He also told me I am too young to date but not to do "things" with. What should I do?

 

Justine

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Dear Justine,

This is a guy you don’t want to get involved with. He's a user! Move on. Guys like him hurt girls. He isn’t interested in anyone but himself.

 

When a guy doesn’t want to get to know and spend time with you, he isn’t interested in you. He just wants the convenience on his terms.

 

The right guy will come along. Just be patient. Go ahead and keep doing the things you enjoy—people are more attracted to someone who is involved in doing interesting things, and who looks like she's having fun. You can also try expanding the circle of people you know by joining new activities. Usually a boyfriend will come along when you least expect it or aren't even busy looking for one!

 

The type of relationship you want is worth waiting on!

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ss3241
ss3241
Posted July 29, 2014
I will never be able to do that!
Sarbear2002
Sarbear2002
Posted February 08, 2014
My guy friend & I were hanging out playfully hitting each other when he put his hand in my pants and rubbed my vajj really fast and I liked it but I'm only 14 what do I do?
♫MyLifeIsRanByMusic♪
♫MyLifeIsRanByMusic♪
Posted September 02, 2012
S[hes]~Br[ok]en actually its Public Display of Affection.
katniss31
katniss31
Posted June 06, 2012
He's not worth it I had a guy like that all over me and I waited and now I met a really sweet guy whos my bf. HE'S NOT WORTH IT <3 stay strong!
Ducklin146
Ducklin146
Posted November 08, 2013
yeah.. stay away from guys like that. if he is persistent then say something to someone. And keep waiting, the one will come along when u are not expecting it. my current boyfriend, yeah, had no clue he liked me till 2 days before he asked me out. the right guy will come and sweep you off your feet if you patiently wait:)
Hychew
Hychew
Posted October 09, 2012
Just stay away from those kinds of guys!!
purplehawk
purplehawk
Posted December 22, 2011
what does PDA stand for? i know it has something to do with fooling around... but what does it acctually mean?
Katie41917
Katie41917
Posted October 24, 2011
THat is 2 bad!!!! he's not worth it. my boyfriend and i have a problem like this going on to so keep going and dont put up with anything
20DawgFan07
20DawgFan07
Posted November 29, 2011
I completely agree!!! Move on!!! I am curious as to what is socially acceptable in terms of PDA.
S[hes]~Br[ok]en
S[hes]~Br[ok]en
Posted January 01, 2012
@purplehawk PDA stands for personal display of affection
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