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Flirting Tips For Girls

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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

How are you supposed to flirt and this is important!! I have a dance on Tuesday. How do I get the guy to dance with me besides asking him?

 

Love you,

Sierra

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Dear Sierra,

Flirting is a basic instinct. It is initiating contact and expressing interest in members of the opposite sex. The goal of flirting is to let the guy you want to get to know better that you find him interesting and attractive. Remember there are no “set in stone” rules for flirting. Here are few tips: 

  • You need to be confident! You know you are amazing, and you need him to get this message from you.
  • Eyes are your most important asset when it comes to flirting. You must make eye contact. It isn’t a staring contest so remember not to stare! If he looks away and then looks back your way, chances are he is interested. A smile added to this is a great sign he likes your attention. If he looks away and doesn’t look back, then you can assume he probably isn’t interested.
  • Don’t forget to smile! Guys love to see those beautiful teeth.
  • Laugh, giggle—this shows you have a sense of humor and guys love this quality.
  • Your body language is very important. Don’t stand around with your arms crossed because this says, “Don’t approach.” Instead relax and maybe put your hands in your pocket.
  • When you have a conversation with him glance at his face when he is speaking and glance away when you are speaking. (Glance means brief.)

 

Okay, now you believe he may be interested, so you need to make your move if he hasn’t yet asked you for a dance. Confidently walk up and say, "Hi, would you like to dance?”  Hopefully, you’ll get the response you want. Remember, even if you don’t chances are he is more nervous than you!

 

Either way let him make the next move!

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DValue
DValue
Posted March 29, 2014
Thank you! This is really helpful. There's this boy in my class and he always looking at me and when I look at him he looks away and then he looks back at me when I turn away. Though I can see him out of the corner of my eye. I think he likes me. Thanks for the advice! :D
littlebombstar
littlebombstar
Posted December 01, 2013
i think this is ok but not enough tips
rock princess
rock princess
Posted July 16, 2013
This is really good. :)
littlebombstar
littlebombstar
Posted December 01, 2013
ok this boy said he ddidn't like me and that he use to but now he knows and he look at me is that a good sign please answer my question
meowsh4u
meowsh4u
Posted October 30, 2013
Meowsh's rating: 1-10.... *drumroll* 100
Nayah 5
Nayah 5
Posted July 03, 2013
this is really good :)
ImmaWIItard01
ImmaWIItard01
Posted April 29, 2013
There's a guy that likes me at my school and he's creepy!
Charjudith
Charjudith
Posted April 29, 2013
this site asks you not to trust people online that you dont know... but we talk to, "the experts" all the time! its kind of messed up..... lol
Charjudith
Charjudith
Posted April 29, 2013
this is so helpful, im even more sure that this boy in my class likes me now! :) i want him to i like him without telling him straight up... this is an awesome article! i hope that it helps other girls too... ;)
chicka4
chicka4
Posted April 10, 2013
so the guy I like likes me too and we talk all the time and have known each for ever and I really like him how do I get him to ask me out?
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