Flirting Tips For Girls Dear BeingGirl Experts, How are you supposed to flirt and this is important!! I have a dance on Tuesday. How do I get the guy to dance with me besides asking him? Love you, Sierra --- Dear Sierra, Flirting is a basic instinct. It is initiating contact and expressing interest in members of the opposite sex. The goal of flirting is to let the guy you want to get to know better that you find him interesting and attractive. Remember there are no “set in stone” rules for flirting. Here are few tips: You need to be confident! You know you are amazing, and you need him to get this message from you. Eyes are your most important asset when it comes to flirting. You must make eye contact. It isn’t a staring contest so remember not to stare! If he looks away and then looks back your way, chances are he is interested. A smile added to this is a great sign he likes your attention. If he looks away and doesn’t look back, then you can assume he probably isn’t interested. Don’t forget to smile! Guys love to see those beautiful teeth. Laugh, giggle—this shows you have a sense of humor and guys love this quality. Your body language is very important. Don’t stand around with your arms crossed because this says, “Don’t approach.” Instead relax and maybe put your hands in your pocket. When you have a conversation with him glance at his face when he is speaking and glance away when you are speaking. (Glance means brief.) Okay, now you believe he may be interested, so you need to make your move if he hasn’t yet asked you for a dance. Confidently walk up and say, "Hi, would you like to dance?” Hopefully, you’ll get the response you want. Remember, even if you don’t chances are he is more nervous than you! Either way let him make the next move! Your BeingGirl Experts Looking for flirting tips for girls? Get helpful advice and conversation tips at BeingGirl.