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Dating Friend's Crush: Should I Go After My Friend's Crush?

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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

My best friend likes this guy, who I've become really good friends with. I don't think that they should go out because he doesn't like her that much, and I think that I may like him now more than just a friend. What should I do?




Dear Natalia,

You have to decide if it would be hurtful to your best friend for you to make any effort in this guy's direction. Chances are it will be hurtful and will cause problems on both sides. Your girlfriend is going to be part of your life a lot longer than any guy will be in either of your lives, and she is your "best friend." If she decides she really "likes" someone else, then talk with her about your feelings.


You know the right thing to do!

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Posted July 29, 2014
I have a crush on my friends crush, yeah she is not my best friend she is my friend, I have asked our crush if he likes my friend and he said no but she still likes him and my friend doesn't know that I like him what should i do please help me
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Posted May 30, 2014
Talk to you're friend first, and is they are fine with it, they are really you're friend. If they are all in your face and an upfront (b)! They are jealous and they really aren't your friend. By the way girls... Its your love life!
Posted January 21, 2013
if she is a good friend,she'll consider your feelings. mine and my best friends crush asked me out, and i told that i had real feelings toward this guy. i asked her if it was okay i dated him, and she was actually really happy for me and it benefits her too, because being my best friend, she gets too talk to him alot.
Posted November 11, 2012
My friend is dating this boy but her best friend likes him a lot, what should i do?
Posted January 31, 2012
my bff likes my bf and i don't know what 2 do!


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