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Dating Bases: What Are They?

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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

What are the bases? I have heard many different definitions, but what does it mean to get to first base, second base, etc.? And could you help me out with some of the slang terms for sex?




Dear Cheyenne,

I cannot say for certain what your friends mean when they talk about the different bases. As you have figured out, this usually refers to how far someone goes sexually. The risk of me telling you what we believe the bases are is what we think may not be what your group of friends’ thinks they are. Anytime you don't understand what your friends are talking about, it is best to find out exactly what they mean so there is no mix-up. Why not privately ask someone who seems to know? I bet that you are not the only one who isn't certain what everyone is talking about.


Good luck!

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Posted November 28, 2012
Do what I do. I go to a close friend that I know I can trust and won't start to laugh because I don't know. Then I ask her secretly after and sometimes she tells me I don't want to know or she doesn't thats when you know that it's not important.Hope this helps anybody needing it.
Posted July 12, 2012
When you talk about the "bases" it means the level your on with someone in a relationship. First base is usually when you hold hands with someone or kiss someone. Second base is when you go a little farther like make-out. Third base is when you go all the way with someone.
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Posted May 18, 2012
Fizt base is kissing second base is making out thrid base is making out w/out clothes fouth base is sex
Posted January 25, 2012
Bases are pretty much slang of saying how far you have been with a guy. E.g 3rd base means having sex. But if your unsure just ask (:x


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