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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

Two years ago, I started to like a guy at my school. Last year, the time had come to finally admit it to him. This year he went to a different high school. Recently, I've been feeling alone and needing someone other than my friends and family to have and to holda boyfriend. I've been thinking about this guy a lot in the past month, and I don't know what to do. I have changed in every possible way in one year, and I haven't even talked to him in a year. I don't know how to go about this at all. Could you help?

 

Emmy

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Dear Emmy,

Chances are he has changed as well. My guess is the most you can do is send him a Facebook message or a funny "friendship" card asking how he is doing in the new school. Understand you may or may not hear from him after you do this. If you don’t hear from him, then know he isn’t interested. Don’t chase after him. Guys don’t like this. In the meantime, get involved in a new activity you are interested in. You’ll meet other teens sharing your interests by getting involved. All of this should fill your "feeling alone" time and give you new ways to spend your time.

 

Good luck!

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Taylor.Hemsworth
Taylor.Hemsworth
Posted January 03, 2014
okay... so i have a crush on a guy hes not in the same class but were really close. he always sits next to me in art lesson. and one day he asked me to be his girlfriend then i told him okay but the next day he broke up with me. then he asked me a couple of times later but i told him idk and after that he started annoying me everyday in front of his friends so i kind of lost interest in him.
ILuvDiCaprio124
ILuvDiCaprio124
Posted March 05, 2013
i have a huge crush on this 1 guy and i sit by him in math class but then i asked him out....i got rejected and noe i still sit with him in math class and i dont get this lesson and im flunkig cause im to nervous to ask him for help
I♥animals
I♥animals
Posted July 02, 2012
I lke three guys, keep in mind that im 12, i like a 14 year old guy named Lee, he is so cute nice and doesnt do half the things i tell him not to do! Hes my god brother but who cares! i was dating a guy named noah in third grade and he went to au different school and we do this program called ju.kids that make a really high grade on itbs go and found out he was supposed to go! I seaurched like a phsyco maniac for him.i asked a boy in his group to find him for me and he said he never came.i was soooo sad that for the next five minutes i cried off 2 pounds! my friends cheered me up before started clgss started thank god but i havent given up on him yet!ill meet him someday.the last guy ilike is super cute!soooo nice and sweet.when school starts back ill tell himm how i feel!
cherrybear711
cherrybear711
Posted March 25, 2012
what should i do i really like this guy but i cant tell if he likes me back please help
CrazyAwesome2
CrazyAwesome2
Posted May 11, 2012
I think you should anyway. I mean even if they don`t want you to, you`re growing up, let them realize that. Plus, if they don1t know, it`ll be rebellious kind of and get ur self esteem up maybe. You never know. Hope I Helped! ~For being A Girl~
micki mouse roxx8
micki mouse roxx8
Posted June 28, 2012
i like this 1 guy at school named andy:) OMG HES SOOOOOOO CUTE!! but i dnt think hes interested:(
melopoppi
melopoppi
Posted November 25, 2011
I am a very shy person. Of course I was always shy as a kid, but I think it's gotten worse. Being bullied for the past year didn't do me any good, to put it short. I can talk to my friends like nothing, in fact, they can't get me to shut up lol. But other people, and usually these are the people I don't trust very much, such as my not-so-close girl friends, and my guy friends, and most of my classmates (particularily the ones that are more "popular" than me). I'll have trouble saying hi to these kind of people in the hallway, unless they initiate conversation first. But when I do get in a convo, it's pretty easy for me to keep it going... lol its really weird. I guess I just don't have a very high self-confidence. But i'm working on it every day :)
rcatie
rcatie
Posted November 09, 2011
What helped me is to think more about school and hang out with friends that don't have boyfriends try to make a new guy friend and see how it goes from there:) -catie
DreamCatcher1912
DreamCatcher1912
Posted October 09, 2011
My parents are overprotective!Im fine with that too!Well,to a ceirtan dagree.Im not ready to date and neither are the boys!LOL!
20DawgFan07
20DawgFan07
Posted December 23, 2011
I kind of know how Emmy feels...
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