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Added November 21, 2011

Crush On A Teacher

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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

I am 14, and I have a teacher who is 28. I love him very much, but he doesn't know. I know this relationship is impossible, but I dream of him every now and then! What should I do?

Cara

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Dear Cara,

Having a crush on a teacher is not unusual. However, as you have said, it is an impossible relationship. It would also be an illegal situation, so you need to put this behind you and move on. Get involved in an activity of interest to you to take up your time and thoughts. You'll meet new friends, including guys, who share your interests, and will get to know them well as you work towards a common goal. You'll have new friends and new interests and lots of good times!

Hope this is helpful,

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KuteChappy

Posted April 01, 2013

If your crush is strong to the point that it's messing with your head, go to your school's guidance counselor for a confidential and helpful conversation.