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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

There is this boy at school, who I really like, and he has a girlfriend!! We flirt like everyday in class and can barely stay away from each other!!! We promised each other that we would be more than friends later, but for now we promised to stay best friends! The only problem is I want to be more than friends with him, but I can't be, because even when I flirt with him, his girlfriend gets mad!! What do I do? How do I let him know that I want to be more than best friends now? What do I do about his girlfriend?

 

Paige

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Dear Paige,

If this guy were interested in you he wouldn’t be with his girlfriend. All the flirting you are doing isn’t going to get you into the relationship you want with him. Take care of yourself and move on.

 

Put your energy and feelings to good use by thinking about the things you like about your crush. Keep these traits in mind as an important trait you want in someone who is available.

 

The right boy will come along. Just be patient because it really doesn't help to force the issue. Keep doing the things you enjoy—people are more attracted to someone who is involved in doing interesting things and who looks like she's having fun. You can also try expanding the circle of people that you know by joining new activities. Usually a boyfriend will come along when you least expect it or aren't even busy looking for one!

 

Good luck!

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partyrockingpryncess
partyrockingpryncess
Posted September 16, 2012
someone help!!!! i have a crush on this football player at my school. problem is i only talk to him a little bit and he has a girlfriend!!!!!!! and i also like this other football player we talk a lot but the thing is he has gone out with a lot of girls!!!!! i wanna tell him how i feel but i dont wanna mess up the realationship and im afraid of getting hurt or rejected (thanks ex bf -.-) help!!!!!!!
partygrl16
partygrl16
Posted September 10, 2012
i have this crush and i dont know what to do with him!! he texts me every day saying he loves me but then he quickly texts back 'JK'. HELP! what should i do?! ~girly
AlwaysMe99
AlwaysMe99
Posted August 09, 2012
i need help my bestfriend has been dating my crush for 4 months and knows i like him and me and him talk online almost every 2 days and i like and i want to tell him how i feel but im afraid that if i do it could ruin our friendship i already lost him once i dont want to lose him again help me please
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Posted July 09, 2012
My crush was dating my bff and then she knew I liked him and she decided to brake up with him so I can date him becuz she said he and she never really hung out and now I am dating him and she is dating this other guy
ughacne
ughacne
Posted July 15, 2012
I don't know if me and my crush "flirt" or not!!!!!It's really hard to tell!
Psandkarrats
Psandkarrats
Posted May 24, 2012
Ok so listen. My crush has a girlfriend and he's always staring at me in english class(mind you the only class we have together). His girlfriend is Asian but he's from Scotland and(in my opinion) the CUTEST guy in earth!!!! He's alway looking at me like he likes me back! But looking at her only like a Girlfriend! I feel like she FORCING him to date her. We're interested In all the same stuff. But all I want to do is get to know him better to see if it's gonna a work out! Somebody here PLEASE HELP ME!!!! I NEED TO KNOW WHAT TO DO!
*Sparkle98*
*Sparkle98*
Posted January 22, 2012
My best friend got me talking to this guy and I really liked him and me and her got in an argument and didn't talk for like two weeks and then we became friends again and she was letting me text him on her phone and i saw that she had been dating and I asked her about it and she told me it was because she was mad!! Does anybody else agree breaking my heart was more than payback or was he the bad guy for dating her please help I'm confused on this....
i<3cupcakes
i<3cupcakes
Posted February 04, 2012
my crush is married and is my teacher
123funnystuff77
123funnystuff77
Posted March 25, 2012
My crush doesn`t have a girlfriend, but he`s not so crazy about dating.
Brookalissss
Brookalissss
Posted January 25, 2012
Love , if he wanted to be with you he would be. But there's plenty of fish in the sea (: go out effort into someone who is single , and then you won't upset anybody , or yourself.x
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