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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

Hi! First of all, I'd just like to say that I think it's aweome that you do this!!!!

 

Okay, my boyfriend and I both play and love soccer, but when his friends invite me to play with them he gets jealous. When they invite him into the game, he doesn't like to lose to me. When I asked his best friend about it he said, "I know that's hard, but no guy wants to play against his girl!" I don't understand! Help please!

 

Caitlin

 

P.S. Thanks a lot!

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Dear Caitlin,

It's a guy thing. Girls and guys view competition differently. Perhaps by reassuring him it is only a game you both love will help. Don't stop playing, but perhaps it would be best if you could play on the same side when you are on the field at the same time!

 

Good luck,

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AFRICANpink
AFRICANpink
Posted April 21, 2014
+ I think the only reasons guys get jealous its because their afraid of loosing their girl to other guys.I have male freinds and they've told me why.
SexiLexiRox
SexiLexiRox
Posted August 16, 2012
I think they think they are better than us and they don't want to upset us if we lose.
Tartlovegirl
Tartlovegirl
Posted April 02, 2012
I guess guys don't like to get beat by girls. I mean it's not like we can't do anything they can do. Right? We've got power too, and I think that they should respect that.
hopepeacelove
hopepeacelove
Posted April 14, 2012
i think sometimes, guys just have to get over the fact that they cant be good at EVEYTHING lol
Tiffany22130
Tiffany22130
Posted December 31, 2011
Hi, me and my bf were playing badminton and he lost and now he acts like he doesnt know me anymore! Please help, tiff
frostingface32
frostingface32
Posted January 01, 2012
My "guy friends" are like that to one time they were so mad because i had beet them running aroud the track in the gym. They shouldn't get so mad over little things.syd(;
SoccerGirl#9
SoccerGirl#9
Posted September 06, 2011
Dear Julie, If you are reading this I would like to say that I don't have a boyfriend but my friend that I sorta like does the same thing. Me and him love the sport and he gets butt hurt and gets mad. P.S. my name is Julie also
queen supreme
queen supreme
Posted August 05, 2011
Tell him its nothing to be jealous about. It's just a game.
Baby2Girl
Baby2Girl
Posted August 07, 2011
I play football with my boyfriend all the time when i dont have cheer practice. His friends always ask me if i wanna play with all of them after school but my boyfriend always says no for me. I just say "Babe, its just a game. I will still love you even if you kick my butt." He laughs and says " Your on!" Then its just fun. Make it a race to see who can win. It makes everything better.
melopoppi
melopoppi
Posted November 20, 2011
Yah me too. I have a guy friend who is really athletic like me, so this one time we had to practice track and field in gym class and my guy friend and I were practicing together, i think, triple jump (hop, step, jump) and we had a friendly competition and I won lol and he's like "I cease to exist cause I got beat by a girl" haha but he was just kidding. I don't know why guys have to always be better than girls at EVERYTHING lolz
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