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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

I am being bullied by a few guys in my class. They tease me and pick on me. They are only nice when they are alone or want something. How can I make my bullies stop?

 

Ellie

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Dear Ellie,

When you are faced with any of these behaviors, recognize you have the right to do something about it. If you ignore it, this might convey this kind of behavior is acceptable. Understand, in no way, are you to blame. Since you mention a few guys, get someone to be with you when you speak to the guys bothering you. Ideally, state very clearly that you don't appreciate this behavior. Say, "I don't like what you're doing. Don't do it again." This is ideal. If this is too hard, or you don’t feel like you can do it this way, enlist the help of a trusted adult. Parents, counselors, trusted teachers, and friends can all help. Remember adults don’t know this is happening unless you tell them.

 

Taking care of yourself is most important. Good luck!

 

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Derp
Derp
Posted July 29, 2014
Lol I got suspended for beating up a bully
Derp
Derp
Posted July 29, 2014
People think Im weird because I'm good at math, history, language arts, and science. Im really good at math and science specifically but apperently at my middle school that is bad. Ppl think I'm stupid just because I love video games.In other words, Im what "popular" kids call a nerd. Bullies suck.
bellblue12
bellblue12
Posted August 20, 2013
I was bullied, sexually sort of. All i did was punch him hard where it hurts and he kept his distance, but i usally doese'nt work that way so dont try it. SORRY
lovenovela
lovenovela
Posted March 30, 2014
Just ignore it.Boys only pick on you because they might like you!Or there just trying to get a reaction out of you so they can embarrass you infrount of your firends.
DValue
DValue
Posted April 19, 2014
LET ME TELL YOU ONE THING!! Tell the bully "stop treating me like shit, im only telling you once dont make me say it again or theres going to be pain and alot of bone breaking" that should scare them but if they do it again punch them square in the face. But mostly talk to them if they hit you first your aloud to hit them back. Self defence
PinkCupcakegirl101
PinkCupcakegirl101
Posted March 29, 2014
This is the same thing that happen to me. This boy is always picking on me when he is with his friends but acts normal and nice to me when he is alone with his friends.
bellblue12
bellblue12
Posted August 20, 2013
Don't worry everyone will get bullied in some way even for a second! I am a little Heavier and thats why i got bullied but i have an older brother. and when the bullied found that out he was GONE. and lucky i didnt tell him my dad is a cop. but he got held back this year so GOODBYE ISAIH
bellblue12
bellblue12
Posted August 20, 2013
bOYS PICK ON U WHEN THEY LIKE U SO NO ONE KNOWS THEY LIKE U
Prettygurl4444
Prettygurl4444
Posted December 15, 2012
Well, sticking up for ur self isn't as easy as u think. I thought it was but it isn't if u been hurt badly like me
Camille<3
Camille<3
Posted August 12, 2012
Bullies are...GAY Ha jk, sorta but they have their own probs and everyone knows they wanna make you feel bad like they do. All you have to do is KILL EM WITH KINDNESS. Worked my 7th grade year! #Experience(: Good luck <3
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