Boyfriend Break Up: Helpful Answers and Advice from BeingGirl

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Added November 21, 2011

Boyfriend Break-Up

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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

How can I break up with someone without breaking his heart?

Nora

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Dear Nora,

This technique helps but you can't know how someone else will accept your intentions. You need a quiet time to sit down and have him really listen. Tell him that you have something difficult to say, and you need his attention.Tell him that he's a great guy, and you've learned a lot being with him. Tell him that your feelings have changed, and you feel it is time for both of you to move on as friends. Wish him all good things—but this won't be easy. Say as many positive things as you can and nothing negative!

Good luck,

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Awesome girl 111

Posted March 08, 2013

i hate my ex but that's becuase he treats me like garbage. but he still wants to get back together what do i do?

kaaybaybee

Posted December 20, 2012

If you find yourself constantly being cheated on DO NOT blame yourself. Maybe the age range of the boys you are dating is too immature for you. Young boys are not always ready to settle down and be "tied" to one girlfriend.

tiffiny.lover

Posted June 21, 2012

just say you are a great guy but, i think we should see other people... just take break for a while. i hope this will help you!!!!!

mrsonedirection2000

Posted November 11, 2012

What do you do when all the boys uve ever gone out with has cheated on you?

micki mouse roxx8

Posted June 27, 2012

When i broke up with my bf i felt sooo bad!! i said: I think we should...umm...break up and he was like y and i said we should take a break and lucky me he was calm so i think were good! XD

PuppyLover342

Posted May 11, 2012

I Broke up with my boyfriend his said he was dating me cause i am his body gaurd

laughingisthekey:)

Posted June 23, 2011

Nora, I have had to deal with this myself. I didn't like the guy i was dating anymore. I told him he was a great person, he did nothing wrong, it's just I liked him better as a friend than a boyfreind. Guys are funny. They just want the girl to be happy, so if your okay being friends than he's okay with it. If anything, I would go to your friends. They will know what to do. :) So just tell your boyfriend, you want to be friends.

kysha123

Posted May 05, 2012

my bf broke my hart :-)

laffytaffy8000

Posted December 25, 2011

I was also in this problem and this is wut happened I told him I love u and all that I love u more like a friend and he said he under stood and he said me too and I told him y I wanted 2 only be friends

kitten2452

Posted March 26, 2012

my bf broke up with me when we were at school in the gym and whisper in my ear and told me now we our still friends and and yet we hate each other at times