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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

I am fourteen but I am in the 10th grade, and I have some boy questions. There is this new guy in my school that I totally have a crush on. I don't know how to approach him. He's held open the door for me before, that's about how close I've gotten to him. I'VE NEVER EVEN SPOKEN TO HIM BEFORE. How do I get him to notice me and get to know each other better?

 

Maddie

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Dear Maddie,

When you get a crush, even with the new guy at school, remember instead of telling him you like him, why don't you flirt and see how he responds?  Saying "Hi" with a big smile is a first step in flirting. When he returns the “hi” and smile then you know you have his attention.

 

Once you have his attention you might consider starting the conversation with him. You can do this by looking for him at lunch to see if he needs someone to sit with. You might ask him about his schedule and who his teachers are. If he has classes or teachers you are familiar with you can start a conversation about school "stuff" or ask him questions that may be of interest to him. Asking a guy if he's interested in sports from the "player" or "watcher" point of view is a great way to start a conversation. You can tell him about school sports and activities. Hopefully, the conversation will move on from here.

 

By flirting with him you might spur him to think about the two of you being more. Try to be playful and enjoy trying to get to know him!

 

Have fun!

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DValue
DValue
Posted April 06, 2014
@Rockelasij and my mum don't let me to get boyfriend or to flirt :/ that is so sad .i am all in love but i can't say "hi" because my mum will rebuke me .this is annoying :/
DValue
DValue
Posted April 06, 2014
But i Love only a guy , but 5 other guys in my class like me. This is annoying . They flirt me ,while i hardly say "hi".This is annoying .
Rockelasij
Rockelasij
Posted March 29, 2014
my mom wont let me get a boyfriend
lizzy98
lizzy98
Posted March 29, 2014
Their is this boy that I like but I know his parents and it just seems really akward and I've known them for a long time
imakicker101
imakicker101
Posted March 29, 2014
How can she not let you flirt if shes not with you
DValue
DValue
Posted March 29, 2014
So I'm just came to a new school a few months ago and I really like this one boy(I'm not going to say his name). I'm not really sure if he likes me or not. I would like to talk with him without his friends(who are extremely obnoxious), How should I approach him?
KatnissMockingjay
KatnissMockingjay
Posted February 08, 2014
OMG thanks this article was so helpful because I have a crush on this boy (not saying names) and he barely even knew i existed so when i gave him a note saying i like him after like, months of building up the courage, he said that he would call me!
123titilope456
123titilope456
Posted February 03, 2014
I like this boy from my church hes really cute but I dontnno if he likes me and my parehts wont let me date until im 16 to 18 and im 12 and hes 15 soo if hes gonna ask me out I cant go out with him it sucks helpppp
BlueMoonGirl
BlueMoonGirl
Posted January 16, 2014
I flirt with 3 guys all the time! But I don't know which one to choose?! When they flirt back I have butterflies in my stomach!!!:) I hope they'll ask me out soon!!! Flirting is easy and asking a boy to dance is so easy, mostly they ask me first!!!:)
theturtleperson
theturtleperson
Posted February 17, 2014
My mom won't let me flirt.
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