Boy Questions: Learn How to Get the Boy
Dear BeingGirl Experts, I am fourteen but I am in the 10th grade, and I have some boy questions. There is this new guy in my school that I totally have a crush on. I don't know how to approach him. He's held open the door for me before, that's about how close I've gotten to him. I'VE NEVER EVEN SPOKEN TO HIM BEFORE. How do I get him to notice me and get to know each other better? Maddie --- Dear Maddie, When you get a crush, even with the new guy at school, remember instead of telling him you like him, why don't you flirt and see how he responds? Saying "Hi" with a big smile is a first step in flirting. When he returns the “hi” and smile then you know you have his attention. Once you have his attention you might consider starting the conversation with him. You can do this by looking for him at lunch to see if he needs someone to sit with. You might ask him about his schedule and who his teachers are. If he has classes or teachers you are familiar with you can start a conversation about school "stuff" or ask him questions that may be of interest to him. Asking a guy if he's interested in sports from the "player" or "watcher" point of view is a great way to start a conversation. You can tell him about school sports and activities. Hopefully, the conversation will move on from here. By flirting with him you might spur him to think about the two of you being more. Try to be playful and enjoy trying to get to know him! Have fun! Your BeingGirl Experts
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