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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

I am fourteen but I am in the 10th grade, and I have some boy questions. There is this new guy in my school that I totally have a crush on. I don't know how to approach him. He's held open the door for me before, that's about how close I've gotten to him. I'VE NEVER EVEN SPOKEN TO HIM BEFORE. How do I get him to notice me and get to know each other better?

 

Maddie

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Dear Maddie,

When you get a crush, even with the new guy at school, remember instead of telling him you like him, why don't you flirt and see how he responds?  Saying "Hi" with a big smile is a first step in flirting. When he returns the “hi” and smile then you know you have his attention.

 

Once you have his attention you might consider starting the conversation with him. You can do this by looking for him at lunch to see if he needs someone to sit with. You might ask him about his schedule and who his teachers are. If he has classes or teachers you are familiar with you can start a conversation about school "stuff" or ask him questions that may be of interest to him. Asking a guy if he's interested in sports from the "player" or "watcher" point of view is a great way to start a conversation. You can tell him about school sports and activities. Hopefully, the conversation will move on from here.

 

By flirting with him you might spur him to think about the two of you being more. Try to be playful and enjoy trying to get to know him!

 

Have fun!

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Fallgirl21667
Fallgirl21667
Posted September 18, 2014
PLEASE READ THIS PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE: okay so I like this boy I've known since 4th grade ( extremely close) he's showing all the sighs that he likes me, but he dosent. I've fallen, and when I try to stop loving him It happans all over agin. What should I do?
Jane Austin
Jane Austin
Posted August 02, 2014
I personally made the decision not to date or have a boyfriend until I'm married (religious viewpoint, don't ask). But, I think in how however you choose to have this guy notice you, don't veer from your studies. No one is that important and your future is worth and depends on it.
basketball_anna02
basketball_anna02
Posted June 23, 2014
I have this crush on this guy at school but he's likening another gurl! That other gurl is also my BestFriends!!!! What should I do???
AnnieC
AnnieC
Posted July 29, 2014
yea i have a crush on a guy but he's like my best friend, and we talk to each other a lot and our relationship is just friends and i don't know how to move on.
Hikara_Kayla
Hikara_Kayla
Posted June 18, 2014
that was so helpful
Trinityiscute
Trinityiscute
Posted June 16, 2014
I love one guy and one guy only at my school as a boyfriend but ll f the middle school boys like me and even some elementary and high school I have yo give a boy a lap dance and kiss him and 2 other boys what do I enjoy the kiss with the boy I love? Everyday I walk in the school boys always grab my but and smack my butt and flirt with me...plz help!
Dance19
Dance19
Posted June 16, 2014
To Story of my life you should ask him if he wants to date you or you can ask one of his friends or one of your friends if they can ask him if you were to ask him out what you would say
DValue
DValue
Posted April 06, 2014
@Rockelasij and my mum don't let me to get boyfriend or to flirt :/ that is so sad .i am all in love but i can't say "hi" because my mum will rebuke me .this is annoying :/
DValue
DValue
Posted April 06, 2014
But i Love only a guy , but 5 other guys in my class like me. This is annoying . They flirt me ,while i hardly say "hi".This is annoying .
Story of my life
Story of my life
Posted June 07, 2014
So there is this boy at me school that likes me what should I do
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