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Added November 21, 2011

Being The Oldest

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By BeingGirl teen author, Lindsay

 

For me, being the oldest sister of two siblings is both fun and hard. Being the oldest means having a lot of responsibilities and enjoying it, but it is also great knowing that I'll be the first one to get a cell phone and my driver's license.

 

Being the oldest sister, babysitting is also one of the great things we get to do, (even though it's not always great for the younger siblings). I have to make sure my little brother and sister stay out of trouble, I have to make sure all of my chores are done, and I have to follow all the rules. I also have to make sure I'm acting maturely, because my siblings are always looking up to me.

 

Responsibilities are sometimes annoying, but with more responsibilities come more privileges. I get to go to the movies with my friends, stay up later, and get a bigger allowance.

 

You know what else is great about being the oldest sister? PG-13 movies! It's cool knowing that you've matured enough to enjoy the kinds of movies that my little siblings aren't allowed to watch. So, when we're watching G-rated movies, it's great knowing that I can watch my movie next.

 

Something else I like about being the oldest is that I don't have to go into the babysitting room at the gym. I can exercise with the adults whenever I want! Sometimes it can be really great being the oldest sister!

 

One not so great thing about being the oldest sister is that your parents expect more from you. If you're blamed for something that you didn't do, usually the tattletale is your younger sibling. Sometimes, they want to make themselves seem like little angels, even if they're hiding their horns and tail!

 

Sometimes, I think that the younger siblings are sooo lucky. But we get the good life every once in a while, too. We don't have to worry about getting hand-me-down clothes and toys all the time, which means we get to go shopping for our own clothes, and they're always new. One of my best friends and I are always looking for dresses in the junior's section to try on, (just for fun.) Even if we'd never buy them, it's fun to see what the new fashions are and what they look like when we try them on. It's great being in junior sizes now, because we get more of a variety of clothes to choose from. There are more styles that allow you to have shorter shorts, longer earrings, and much more that younger siblings can't have.

 

Okay, I'm done complaining. I really love it when I get to help my little brother work on spelling, and my little sister with homework. I can tell that they really like spending time with me and learning what I teach them, so I take time to play board games and hang out with them when I can.

 

Being the oldest sister is great, but sometimes it's not easy. And, still, I love every bit of being the oldest!

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maddie11
maddie11
Posted October 29, 2012
yeah i get it my lil sis annoys me so much sometimes and i get so angry its hard
Sweet_Girl 101
Sweet_Girl 101
Posted September 02, 2012
i am the oldest in my family but i HATE when my little brother tells on me, gets in my room, most of all i hate it when my mom takes his side over mine i just wish sometimes i was an only child maybe life will be better for me
Hi there!:)
Hi there!:)
Posted August 23, 2012
cont. And I don't want to be that person, I love them and the only reason they are like that is because of their parents and apparently (according to my sister) my 'mean; cousin said that I had no right to talk about her mother like that (I said she should look after her own kids - i was really ticked off) but I can't stand her.
Hi there!:)
Hi there!:)
Posted August 23, 2012
Hey, I only have one sibling and I am the oldest by 2 years with that but I find that fine and pretty much like anyone else does. The problem mainly is my cousins - they are practically like my brothers and sisters and i see them soooo often but including my sister there are five of them and I have the constant responsibility of looking after them AND i get blamed for what they do.
Hi there!:)
Hi there!:)
Posted August 23, 2012
cont. I find this worse than just looking after siblings because in my opinion my aunt is an awful parent so her kids are completely crazy, opinionated, full of attitude and the eldest of the two is just downright mean (to be nice)!so I was screaming at them and crying and later my sister told me that it was like being shouted at by the scariest teacher and my mean cousin told me that she had to laugh to stop herself from crying when I told her that she was horrible even when she was younger.
Hi there!:)
Hi there!:)
Posted August 23, 2012
cont. (last one promise and i'm really sorry :( thank you) My aunt expects me to be her, she lets her daughter parade around in high heels and have the worst attitude and would let her get away with murder but when she is strict she doesn't mean it. But my Aunt thinks that I should were high heels like her and her daughter and dress like her and cut my hair shorter and I just want her to leave me alone and be a better mother because she's wrecking her kids. :,(
Lyssa333
Lyssa333
Posted August 12, 2012
I'm the oldest, and having 3 other sibilings AND strict parents, ugh. But I get the worst of it because I'm not allowed to go out with my friends.
skittles321
skittles321
Posted July 30, 2012
I'm the oldest and have a 7-year old bratty sister that crys every time she dosn't get her way. Then my mom walks by and starts telling me that i'm suppose to give her what she wants since i'm the oldest. well i've been doing that for 7 years!my parents were the youngest when the were little so they're no help.
urbeautiful2
urbeautiful2
Posted July 25, 2012
Reading these comments, some of u think u have it bad! I am the oldest of 5 others little ones! 2 brothers who are obsessed with tv and their little army men ages(7 and 5) and 3 lil sisters who all say I'm fat and ugly. I used to cry about it and starve myself but now I love myself! A good come back when someone calls u fat is, nice story, can I eat it? It's both sarcastic and gets them out of ur hair. My other sisters are 11,10, and 9. They are all small and wear the same sizes and clothes! But the worst part is my older half brother, who was a straight a student, excelled in all sports and went to the air force academy. Now that's potential to live up to.reading this again makes me realize that us women can do more than men. Every thing plus have more children into this world :)
I_love_One Direction
I_love_One Direction
Posted July 29, 2012
I'm the oldest an i only have 1 silbling and thats my little brother but i dont have to babysit him because hes only 9 months and 9 days younger than me but i babysit my lil cuzins and its really fun but hard
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