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Dear BeingGirl Experts,

My best friend told me recently that she has fooled around with two guys. But the thing is that I can't imagine myself fooling around with guys or letting them fool with me. Is this normal? Or do different people start being sexually active at different times. Help!

 

Samantha

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Dear Samantha,

You are absolutely normal! Whatever kind of contact you allow with another person is a personal decision. Your decisions are based on your personal values. There may be times over the next few years when you will be pressured to take risks you aren’t comfortable with. Stick with what you know is right for you and not what others believe is right for you. You are in charge of yourself!

 

Good luck,

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volleyball_love
volleyball_love
Posted January 16, 2014
I have the same problem... All of my girl friends have done stuff with guys. I haven't but I really want to. I know my boyfriend is the right guy because I trust him with everything. I think you should make sure you feel like you can trust him, and make sure he isn't pressuring you.
micki mouse roxx8
micki mouse roxx8
Posted June 30, 2012
msdoglover, depending on how old u r, i think u should wait till ur married and wait until u can trust him. Dnt get urself in trouble:) hoped this helped!!
asa123
asa123
Posted October 28, 2011
my boyfriend wants to start being sexually active.
msdoglover
msdoglover
Posted February 24, 2012
My bf and I always tend to stumble upon this subject. We have been dating a while and I'm totally in love with him. And he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. And we already said we will never leave each other. So should I go for it? Weboth want to and Ivan easily get on the pill and he has condole. Do would it be s good idea? Or should we wait? Please help!!!!!
20DawgFan07
20DawgFan07
Posted December 23, 2011
@asa123 What do you think of that?
Moo(:
Moo(:
Posted June 27, 2012
I have a bf and I SO wanna do the same thing.. but.. I think I should wait lol
wicked_310
wicked_310
Posted August 02, 2011
my best friend is a guy and he recently told me that he wants to start beaing sexually active and i feel quit uncomfterbol because he is skinny and short and i am really tall and really think not fat but think and i dont know if i should just go for it or loose a couple of pounds , i just wana feel good and not ashame of my body. what should i do
starfish97
starfish97
Posted August 24, 2011
It matters how you feel about yourself when you feel that your ready go for it but i think you should wait i heard that sex is not all what its cracked up to be. Id say wait till mariage
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