I honestly believe sex s something you should do when you are very close to someone and they feel the same toward you. You have to be emotionally ready to handle the closeness that comes wth it. I'm 14 I've never had a boyfriend and I believe this. Sex at our age is overrated.

Sorry, my little sis wrote the last comment. But, I dont even have a boyfriend so sex isnt in my mind.

I THINK SEX IS GROSS! IM NEVER GETTING MARRIED!!!!!!

taylor73299, that is crazy..has she told her parents????....i suggest talking to her about that and then mabye mentioning it to her boyfriend who is flirting around with other girls .,mabye he can help her as well...is she paronoid about it or calm..either way she deserves emotional support and no judgememtn

You should have sex until you are sure that the guy you are in bed with is the one for you. I will probably wait until I am married to have sex

@krazykatie I read that some girls bleed the first time they have sex so its ok something about some lining that the guy breaks when he does his thing

Hey lolthemonster, you said that it does hurt your first time. My friend told me that she did, and that it didn't hurt at all. Why is that? And if it does hurt, why?

I am gonna try to wait until i am out of college and have a real job so if i did become pregnant i would be able to handle it better.

hey my freind told me in math class today shes afraid shes pregnant. her boyfreind is flirting with other girls a little bit too. we are both 13 and in 8th grade. what can i do to help her cuz she missed her period.

I asked my 16 year old friend (who will now have a child) to type her story: It all started innocently. at first we saw each other when other people around, but soon we saw reasons to be alone together. Sometimes id skip classes to be with him or other times id lie to my mom. It wasn't long before we started playing around. So after about four months after dating him, we finally did it. I felt really bad afterward and decided this had to stop. But I liked him a lot and he liked me too so we were back together again. In a week or two I'm expecting a baby. If my story can help one scared girl like me, its worth telling. I know many young girls feel that even though they r dating and not ready to marry, they won't do anything wrong. they think they can kiss and touch a lot and not get intimate. I thought that too. But now i know it doesn't work like that. One thing leads to another, always.